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InnerPeace - Wednesday Mar 30, 2016

Weight: 311.9

We have ants! How the hell they get in the house I am clueless. I hate the little buggers! I have talked about the ants before and my DH getting snippy with Scott's lawn service...well we still have the ants so I can't leave food down for my dog during the day. DH wouldn't let me use the lawn service because he said he would take care of it, the bad thing about that it is whenever he feels like it, which may be NEVER! I made a comment that we still have ants as I was washing the dog food down the drain and he says, you can go to Home Depot too JoAnn.

Yes well, I will and you know what I DID! If I would have known I would have had to still take care of stuff like this being married I would have thought twice about it. He forgets I lived alone and owned a home by myself and took care of everything for over 15 years. He doesn't scare me with that macho bullcrap! Hey, guess what? I can mow, weedeat and paint too. You need a sink unclogged I'm your girl! Trash taken out, hey I'm there!  dumb me for thinkin a husband might take over these house chores! bleepity bleep!  I'm trying, I really am!

He did say he would go with, why to make sure I get the right stuff? No, he wanted to pick up the edger he ordered online, we'll see how many times that is actually used this spring/summer!

Tonight is a little girl night. We have nothing planned and she is on spring break, so maybe we will go for a walk. I'm really not in the mood to entertain her though.

Dinner last night was the pesto chicken. DH baked the chicken with pesto sauce, tomato and cheese. It was ok, rice and green beens. Total for the day was 1604.

WEDNESDAY

B: bagel, cream cheese, iced vanilla latte

S: yogurt protein bar

L: smoked salmon, crackers, yogurt

I'm not sure what's for dinner.

Was thinking if my mom don't come up this spring that I will be driving home the last week in July. I really miss my mom and friends. Made an appointment at the VA so I can get my face pill prescription renewed. It isn't until May. I will run out of pills by then, but oh well, They may or may not help the acne. My face as been descent the last couple of weeks, so who knows.

Have a pleasant evening! IP

 

Progress as of today: 9.7 lbs lost so far, only 101.9 lbs to go!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/30/2016:
Man...I was tempted to pick up smoked salmon today bc I have been enjoying treating myself to salty foods lately. but...no. I didn't pick it up bc I couldn't think about spending even more money on food. lol. I have bought so much, I will not need to go food shopping again until I get back from the wedding Sunday! LOL...considering I will not even be in this apartment both Friday night into Sunday.

Glad to hear your face is doing better. Mine usually calms down with less stress. This week though, i'm taking matters into my own hands :)



InnerPeace - Tuesday Mar 29, 2016

Weight: 311.9

Comments comment:

The sky is blue.

The weather is cold.

I am at work.

We went shopping.

Easter was last weekend.

You are a nice person.

You left the toilet seat up.

All comments! Why is it that my DH says the last one is a complaint? I say because he feels guilty and wants to start something. I just made the comment how he reacts to it is his own doing. If when I say this comment you feel you should have done something different or you feel you got caught doing something you shouldn't then this is not my fault. I am not complaining, I merely made a comment.

I walked into the bathroom and saw the toilet hadn't been flushed. I didn't leave it. So either DH or the little girl left it. I made the comment. Someone needs to come and take care of this toilet. So the guilty one gets mad and finally comes and takes care of it. Again, not a complaint in my book. Handle your business!

NOTE TO SELF: Don't take naps in the afternoon on workdays! It took forever for me to get to sleep last night and then the back neighbors, who live on an acre lot or larger was blasting music and having a bon fire, this upset my dog and he barked and barked. Poor thing! DH's stomach was acting up or he had indigestion or heartburn or something but he was up and down and then he starts with the passing gas and stinking up the room, I made him go downstairs. Needless to say, sleep was there but it sucked!

Work is Meh today!

B: asiago bagel, cream cheese, iced vanilla latte

S: left over pretzel stick

L: 1/2 hamburger from dinenr last night, I had two halo tangerines, but one was black inside and the other was very dry so I only ate 1/2 of it.

I had yogurt but it was past the good by date and tasted curdled so I tossed that.

S: trail mix

D: DH was talking about pesto chicken, not sure how he is going to make this.

Have a good evening!

 

Progress as of today: 9.7 lbs lost so far, only 101.9 lbs to go!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/29/2016:
Lol, men....never wanna take responsibility for their actions...LOL...I am facing a situation not similar, but involving a man and the fact he'd rather party all the time than be serious for a second! And I still love in anyways, bc he definitely has stolen a piece of my heart. I hope one day he will share half my heart with me at least!


hollybelle on 03/29/2016:
Rowdy neighbors! Have a good one tomorrow!



InnerPeace - Monday Mar 28, 2016

Weight: 311.9

Today was interesting. I get a text from DH that he is wanting to go home about 10:30. I'm thinking he is in pain so I ask my boss if I can leave to go pick him up (we carpool). My boss is like sure, we are flexible here. I get DH and he just wants to leave because he has no work to do. So we go home. We take an awesome nap. When we wake up we go eat an early dinner and then go shopping. We get back home and just relax. It was good to leave work at lunch, we should all do that more often.

B: bagel, iced vanilla latte

L: 1/2 left over porkcho sandwich

D: 1/2 cheeseburger with homemade chips.

I had about 1600 calories. My calories have been ok, but I can see us creeping back into the bad habit routines.

Progress as of today: 9.7 lbs lost so far, only 101.9 lbs to go!

thinkpositive on 03/29/2016:
Fun to do something different. Nice to have a flexible boss!



InnerPeace - Sunday Mar 27, 2016

Weight: 311.9

Stupid Easter! Bad memories on this day in my life. I will type more later. B. Bagel and cream cheese D: pork chop, stuffing and green beans Bear claw, golden Oreos eating like crap! Over 2300 calories today.

 

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In 1988 my son was in the hospital on Easter day. He had an abscess on his forehead. He kept falling and bumping his head. Earlier in the week he had fallen at the mall on the concrete floor (he was just over 2 yeras old). He had a little bump pop up on his forehead, the next day he fell down and hit his head on the side of a chair, this time it popped up and wouldn't go away. Being in the military I took him to the hospital and they wanted to treat me like a criminal. It was awful, they didn't treat him and sent him to the children's hosptial in town. They had to do surgery and pack his abscess. We were in the hospital Easter weekend. It was terrible for my little guy, but he made it through like a champ. Later we find out he has a lazy eye, this is the reason he kept falling. We had that fixed too, not once but twice.

And then in 1990 I was in jump school at Fort Benning, GA and was in terrible pain. I went to the ER and they kept telling me they pain I felt wasn't anything. I couldn't  lie down and  I couldn't stand, all I could do was sit bent over in a chair. They had me sit there in the ER for six hours because they didn't want to call in a surgeon on the holiday. WTF!! When I woke up from ER the Dr. had the nerve to tell me how sick I was...my appendix had burst. Well if your ass was here four hours ago, it might not have been so bad. AZZHAT!

And then DH's wife first started acting crazy on Easter. He is brooding and moody, this day is just so irritating.

Progress as of today: 9.7 lbs lost so far, only 101.9 lbs to go!

cybermom4 on 03/28/2016:
May today be a good day full of joy and happiness!



InnerPeace - Saturday Mar 26, 2016

Weight: 311.9

I stayed up late watching basketball. Think I got to bed at 12:30. DH was up at 6:00 going to work I slept in til 8:00. I was using the word depressed as I have no interest in anything no motivation. DH asked what so I have to be depressed about. I just don't want to do anything that will task my brain or make me sweat or make me sore. I guess I'm just being a big baby.

B: cheese Danish

L: goldfish

D: chicken and dumplings

Watching basketball again no plans for Easter.

Progress as of today: 9.7 lbs lost so far, only 101.9 lbs to go!

hollybelle on 03/27/2016:
I have just gone through a very unmotivated stage. I had to realize that I don't have to particularly FEEL like going for that walk (just a short one) I just have to do it anyway - it has surprised me that once I get my shoes on, and get out the door the short 10 minute walk becomes the 20 min walk and the 20 min walk becomes 40 and so on....as for soreness - I take Tylenol acetaminophen - arthritis strength. I am 62 years old and I'd probably have to take it anyway to get out of bed! LOL Take a walk at half time!


Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/27/2016:
I feel for you. I also get into my moods where I don't want to do ANYTHING while home in my apt. Yesterday, the ONLY thing I managed before heading out to dinner at 5pm was laundry. Only other thing I did was eat little and read for like 20min! That's it. just on the computer and being really lazy. I will always fall back a little into this lazy spell if I have been working hard & too busy leading up to it. Sometimes I think being lazy or not wanting to be productive isn't the worst thing in the world.



InnerPeace - Friday Mar 25, 2016

Weight: 311.9

I am defeated! I let making the chick costume stress me out! It is ditched. DH will be a bunny in a basket now. He can wear white pants and shirt with the bunny ears. I used the dog's old swimming pool as the basket and will decorate it up. I just couldn't get the right thing/look going with the chick. What a waste of time. I didn't go to work today and slept late. My boby did not like this, as I had a headache most of the day and then I was running around and the traffic was really on my last nerve. There was more traffic today than during the holidays I think. They sure celebrate Easter up here in a BIG way! And most of the stores are closed on Easter! Heck they were open on Thanksgiving....just makes me wonder!

We had baked pork chops, green beans and stuffing for dinner. It was good.  Total calories for the day was right around 1838

B: vanilla iced latte

L: ssmoked salmon and crackers

D: meatloaf, mashed potatos and gravy, small salad

I havent't added calories yet.

We were supposed to go to a glow in the dark egg hunt but the weather is cold and drizzly, and DH's knee is hurting so we decided not to go. We took the little girl to eat, she has to be back at her mom's for Easter. I will try to finish the pool basket tomorrow as that adult egg hunt is in the evening. We can go for the costume contest but again depending on how DH's knee feels. Here they do not hide Easter Eggs they just throw them on the ground and everyone makes a mad dash to pick them up, tripping over each other and pushing and shoving. Not the best envirnonment for my DH right now. We will just have to see.

Wishing you all a happy Easter and nice relaxing Saturday.

Cheers, IP

Progress as of today: 9.7 lbs lost so far, only 101.9 lbs to go!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/26/2016:
Sorry you are stressed - it happens to so many of us during the holiays! Good calories...I love smoked salmon!!!!!!!!!! yum!!!!!!!!! been wanting it so much lately...I think I will buy some tomorrow.



InnerPeace - Thursday Mar 24, 2016

Weight: 311.9

Tuesday  night I picked up the little girl and she informs me that there is an awards ceremony at her school on Wednesday. I tell her I may not be able to make it, usually I need more than a day's notice to just leave work. On the drive she says she wants to check her grades because she wants so bad to make the merit roll. She already gets a perfect attendance award and she was student of the Month. So we get home and she checks her grades. She is mad because she made a C in Math and she won't make merit roll.  Her dad gets home and we eat the subway and take off for the egg craft.

Once at the egg craft she is all mopey like she doesn't want to be there and she is clingy and hanging all over me. I tell her if she doesn't start acting like she is the least bit interested we would stop coming to these craft events.  I ask her, what on earth is the matter? She tells me she is mad that she made a C. I asked her if she did her best, did she work her hardest. She replied yes, I then told her well then there is no reason for you to be mad, you did the best you could. We'll just work harder next quarter.

And then of course on the way home the stupid bird flew up and knocked the side view mirror off the car. It scared my DH so bad, I was really pissed.  But this is the same side I just scraped up in the parking lot, so it just looks a little worse now.

Anyway, yesterday, the exwife sends pictures of the little girl getting her awards and she did make merit roll (all As & Bs). I text back and said, I'm very happy she was worried she didn't get merit roll. Then the exwife says....Mr. Thomas told her to keep working hard and I told her I believed in her and she pushed forward!! (What thehell? So did Mr. Thomas just give her the award? Was the C for the last quarter? If it's the first, I'll have to check, I'd hate for the teacher just to give her something she didn't earn just because she was a little upset! This is not preparation for the furture or sixth grade! Damn, then I should get mad at everything until I get my way! ) The exwife, mom person) This is the same one who was letting her daughter fail third grade until I stepped in and started her extra help. Oh well....you go then mom!  The little girl had to write a letter to her hero, it was ME! Because I helped her pass third grade and take care of her, it wasn't to her mom, just saying!  DH was mad, but I'm just like let it go, that little girl knows who takes care of her and who does what.

DH and I went to Wal-mart and picked a few things and then ate at the diner. I spent the rest of the evening, trying to work on the crazy costume we need for Saturday night, still a long way to go. My mom called and wanted help with calling a few places to notify them of my uncle's death. I did that today at work in between projects!

Tonight, no plans, but we get the little girl and we will stay home and do home work and costume stuff!

B: toast, vanilla iced latte

L: salmon, crackers, fiber one bar

no snack today

D: pork something, DH thawed pork

Have a great evening! IP

 

Progress as of today: 9.7 lbs lost so far, only 101.9 lbs to go!


InnerPeace - Wednesday Mar 23, 2016

Weight: 312.3

Last night we took the little girl to color eggs and on the way home a bird flew into the side of my car and broke the side view mirror off. It scared DH so bad! I went back and picked up the cover and found the mirror but doubt it can be put back on! What on early else could happen with my car!

We ate subway. I had a six inch turkey. I was so hungry though when we got back home I had the last four ribs. I ended the day with 1891 calories.

crazy day at work! Stressing out!

B: toast, vanilla iced latte

L: smoked salmon, crackers

S: bright side granola; trail mix

D: chicken wrap

Finished the day with 1660 calories.

Progress as of today: 9.3 lbs lost so far, only 102.3 lbs to go!

hollybelle on 03/24/2016:
Sorry about your car. How bizarre! Cals aren't too bad. Hang in there.



InnerPeace - Tuesday Mar 22, 2016

Weight: 312.3

Very crazy night, but things are back to normal this morning, or so I thought. I slept all night which is great!

B: toast, iced vanilla latte

S: pepperidge brightside granola bar

L: smoked salmon and crackers

D: planned - subway

We have a library acitivy tonight - decorating Easter eggs. I boiled six last night to take with us, we can do two a piece. I am picking up the little girl after work and we are meeting DH at the house and then leaving.

And then the daily drama =========================

I get to work and get a phone call from my sister. She told me our uncle died on Sunday about 6:00pm. I'm like seriously, why are you just now telling me? That sucks! She says I thought mom told you, uh...NO she didn't.

Then she says, that your husband was texting mom and mom said she told your husband to tell you. I then ask my DH and he says I never received a text from your mom about anything, she never texted me back, so then he calls me at work and said he would never keep something like that form me. All I can think is that my mom didn't press send, I just don't know.

My sister went on to talk about the book royalties that my uncle signed over to me six years ago. I told her I never sent the letter in until just last week. I told her if I ever receive any royalties, I will send it to my mom, they were the ones that took care of my uncle while he was sick, I would NEVER feel right taking that money. I only helped him format and write the book, that cannot even compare to all they have done the last year.

She also told me that my oldest nephew's girl friend is expecting their third child (a girl) and they are going to name her Violet (my mom's name) JoAnn (my name). they already have an 11 and 10 year old, why on earth they would have another is beyond me! This is puzzling and irritating all at the same time. These kids both my nephew and grand neice and nephew have been raised on public assistance. And I guess it won't end there. My middle nephew is in prison and the third one can't keep a job. None of these three kids finished highschool! It is so very sad And I just remember the youngest one text me last year on my birthday...Happy Birthday aunt JoAnn, can I borrow $30 dollars? I will never forget this!

I can see today sucking, I hope it gets better as it goes.

 

Progress as of today: 9.3 lbs lost so far, only 102.3 lbs to go!

grannyannie on 03/22/2016:
Sorry about your loss.


hollybelle on 03/22/2016:
Sorry for you loss,IP. We can't pick our family, can we? For better or worse and most the time mine is a little of both! God bless.



InnerPeace - Monday Mar 21, 2016

Weight: 312.3

Omg how times gets away when I am using my creative mind.

B: toast and I iced vanilla latte

L: turkey Swiss sandwich, crackers S. Trail mix

D. Left over ribs and green beans I took Steve for a walk and worked on the Easter costume for Saturday.

DH can be an azz sometimes! I'll have more time tomorrow to write about this...reminder to myself! Have a good night.

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This is all the stuff I wanted to write about last night, but got involved with the costume making - and I was busy at work so....here it is now.

A couple of weeks ago I picked up the dog's bowl off the kitchen floor and it was just filled with little black ants and there was so many it grossed me out. I washed them down the drain.

Jump to last Friday when the Scott's lawn service man calls me - I thought it was the weed control man but he was calling about pest control. He said they would spray 18 inches up the foundation and three feet out for $70 and guarantee no pests. Well it isn't just for one application it is for 4 different applications for $280. I was thinking about my ants but I told him I had to talk to my husband and to call me back.

So the lawn man calls me back while we are driving home and DH doesn't like the tone and attitude he is using so he tells the man never mind he isn't interested. So after he hangs, up I ask my DH what about the ants. DH says he will buy some boric acid and put around the foundation. My reply was ok when? At least if the lawn man did it, I would know it would get done. My DH is wonderful, however, he doesn't do things when needed, he only does them when he wants to or feels like it. I lived alone in my house for fifteen years and did everything myself, so I know how to mow and weedeat and do stuff. So I know when it is time to do this, I would just do it. Not DH, the grass will need to be mowed this weekend, he will say, I am going to wait until A neighbor or B neighbor mows. Why? This makes me crazy! Just freakin' mow already!

So he gets attitude!

And then he gets a text from a niece that I know he hasn't talked to since I moved up here (three years in May) asking if she can use our address so she can received mail for her medical and other benefits she gets from the state. She says, I can't use Tony's (the other uncle) because dad is, so I need to use someone else's address. So DH replies. I am fine, thanks for asking, because he was pissed that the only time his family talks to him is if/when they need something (not unlike my own). He said she is capable and able to find work and has, however, she does not take care of herself (she has diabetes) and often needs hospitalized for sugar too high or too low....ergo, she refuses to work and gets whatever benefits from the state. He said his sister was helping this neice before and caused all kinds of trouble. She isn't honest and lies. So I just made a comment, well, you can, but I just want you to know that if anything comes up missing from the mailbox, she will be the first person I blame. Again, this makes him pissy.

I really don't care if she uses the address, I just wanted him to know that if she isn't honest and lies what's to prevent her from taking something in our mailbox. And then I want her to use it because why not help someone less fortunate. I don't know whether he said she could or not in the end.

But after all this, he gets really pissy and is just being really nasty. I told him times like these I wish I just never moved up here. Both of our families suck! We both work hard for everything we have, and to see others thriving while doing nothing is very irritating. He went out into the garage and was doing whatever he does out there (not mowi) and then he comes back in and apologizes, this is why I love him so!

The calories for the night were 1868.

Progress as of today: 9.3 lbs lost so far, only 102.3 lbs to go!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/22/2016:
Aren't men always asses! hehe, just kidding. My "not yet boyfriend but still my man" does so much ass-y things :) but I love the dude!



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