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Maria7 - Sunday May 20, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 148.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello and happy Sunday to you!

Beautiful day here.  Hubby and I went to church this morning and enjoyed a wonderful Sunday School lesson taught by the Sunday School Teacher, followed by a wonderful sermon preached by the Pastor. 

This afternoon we visited MomIndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567at the nursing home, who appears to be doing better.  Thank you for your prayers.

 

The scale weighed me at 148.4 this morning, so I'm okay with it there for the time being.  Clothes fit fine.  I've been on the go a lot lately (when am I not?) and this has helped me as far as keeping weight at an acceptable (though not goal) weight is concerned.

 

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Hope you are having a good day. Every day with the Lord IS a good day.  Is He your Lord and Saviour?   I hope so, cause He sure is mine!  If He's not your Lord and Saviour, today is the day of salvation and there is NO TIME like today to get right with the Lord, Jesus Christ.  Believe on Him, repent of your sins and ask His forgiveness.  It is that simple.  We are living in the last days and many will wish one day that they had chosen to live for Him while they were here on earth to do so!

 

Love, Maria

Progress as of today: 56.6 lbs lost so far, only 8.4 lbs to go!

grannyannie on 05/20/2012:
Hi Maria. Glad your mom is doing better. Also happy you get such joy and comfort from your religion. My choice, however, is to try to practice Buddhism more consistently.

Have a good week.


hollybelle on 05/20/2012:
Good to see post from you. Glad Mom is doing some better. it is beautiful here, too, but H.O.T. Hot, Hot, Hot!


LeakingLife on 05/20/2012:
Keep on keepin' on and don't let the ones who aren't interested in helping you get you down! Do remember it the next time they need your help. Maybe not the most charitable attitude, but you have to take care of YOURSELF first and that's hard to do when you're intensely involved with overseeing your mother's care!

Let yourself off the hook whenever you can and just live! I know, easier said than done!


selina on 05/21/2012:
Thank you Maria, I'm happy you like the photo. Sounds like you are well and happy! Cheers and have a great week!


Umpqua on 05/21/2012:
Awesome news on your Mom doing better Maria, I'm sure that just made your day!!


V on 05/21/2012:
Hello Maria :) So happy to hear that your Mom is doing well <3 Oh and RYC we didn't get any rain from Alberto..We could certainly use it!


moogy on 05/21/2012:
Love the way you are so open with your testimony Maria, it is a great example to me:) Glad that your mom is doing better at the moment:)


thinkpositive on 05/22/2012:
Glad to hear that your mother is doing better, it must make your life easier.



Maria7 - Wednesday May 16, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 148.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello to you...

Thank you to those of you who have remembered me in my absence lately with your sweet comments you wrote to my last entry.  I've been very busy with going back and forth to the nursing home, seeing about Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567 who has had visits with Specialist Doctors that I've also accompanied her at, to try to relieve her pain and suffering.  Little has helped, it appears.  Once she is treated for her ailments, she seems to have renewals of pain quickly afterwards.  I don't know what the answer is other than trusting in the good Lord, who is our Creator, which I do. 

My weight has been fluctuating and I am still wearing the same size 8 comfortably.  Since I am so much on the go and therefore do not rest much, I think I have gained muscle and am fitting into my clothes more comfortably than I have in a while.

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Hubby is doing well.  His hours at work have been greatly reduced this year but we are thankful to the Lord he still has his job.  Also, he and I have still been visiting other churches since we left the one we were a part of for about 17 years where I was pianist and teacher and he had been Men's Ministries Director and Sound Director for a while.  We seem to have narrowed it down to 2 churches we attend now. 

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flowersyellow.jpg image by autumn1234567

 

As for me, I am very tired.  Let it be said that mental exhaustion is just as tiring as physical exhaustion because it makes you physically exhausted.  When I think I can get a little rest, a nurse from Mom's nursing home calls me to come up there for one reason or another, regarding Mom, immediately.  I have no choice but to run.  My siblings are indifferent and offer little help and in the meantime, Hubby and I are expected to keep up with Mom's support, whatever it may be, whether physically being available at all times or financially, without their help.  I do sometimes walk outside and look at the flowers but I have no extra energy to get back into flower gardening overall.  

Anyway, thought I would say hello.  Hope you are doing well  and hope you are having a good day in the Lord.

 

 

Love, Maria

Progress as of today: 56.6 lbs lost so far, only 8.4 lbs to go!

moogy on 05/16/2012:
I am sorry that life is really testing you at this time Maria. I am glad however, that you are recognising that we must leave things outside our control in the Lord's hands. I hope you find peace in your heart during this stressful time:) Sometimes no matter how hard we try and how much we work our trials are not lifted, but it is during those times that our steadfastness and faith are tested:) I am confident you will pass this time of trial:)


hollybelle on 05/16/2012:
Maria-So sorry things are so hard. You are a wonderful daughter. I echo Moogy's prayer for peace in your heart today and always. Thanks for taking the time to let us hear from you. You are never far from support here on dds - God bless!


thinkpositive on 05/16/2012:
Sorry to hear that you are drained of energy from all of your stress. It sounds like a very difficult time and not being able to solve your mother's pain problems must be frustrating. On the bright side- you are able to keep your weight in control.Hope things get better for your mother.


V on 05/16/2012:
Sorry that you are having a tough go at it Maria <3


Umpqua on 05/16/2012:
I'm sure you are extremely mentally drained Maria. Keep walking around and soaking up the fresh air and looking at those flowers, it will surely lift your spirits a little. Please take care of yourself and keep us posted on your life!


supercheese on 05/16/2012:
Sorry to here your tired!!! Im sure its a lot to go through! keep your spirits up! :)


LeakingLife on 05/16/2012:
Hang in there--hope you get some respite soon. If not, you may just have to hide for awhile--within reason of course. I know you can't totally get away from it all!

aka biscottibody59



Maria7 - Friday Apr 27, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 148.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello to you...

The sun is shining here today (been getting some rain over the past few days, which we thank the Lord for).  According to the tv weather channel, supposed to get up to around 80 here later this afternoon.

I've been real busy with Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567 this week...going with her to her doctor...she saw a specialist and we are waiting for test results which may or may not reveal the cause of her pain...Also she and I had a quarterly care-planning meeting at her nursing home yesterday...I've been spending a lot of time with her, sitting with her, keeping her company, as well as trying to be helpful in any way I can and try to keep her cheered up.  She has been going through a lot of pain but she finally seems slightly better these past couple of days.  We thank you for your prayers.

 

Weight was 148.4 this morning on the scale, up a little but at least I can still wear the same size clothes I've been wearing.

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Hubby has been under the weather but is getting better, thank the Lord.

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flowersyellow.jpg image by autumn1234567

 

I've got a sinus headache this morning and have taken tylenol for relief...I've also been sneezing.  I am so tired and want to get some more things done in this house (been spring-cleaning)...

 

Hope you are having a wonderful day in the Lord.  Take care.

 

Love, Maria

Progress as of today: 56.6 lbs lost so far, only 8.4 lbs to go!

grannyannie on 04/27/2012:
Oh no! All of you! Hope you all get better soon and that mom's pain eases. Have a great weekend!


V on 04/27/2012:
:( I hope your sinuses clear up for you, as always sending some prayers for your family <3


TheMother on 04/27/2012:
Funny thing you mention about having a headache - I too have been having a mild headache for the past few days. I think it must be pollen in the air or the FL warmth (high 80s). Still trying to adjust to living in Central Florida after living in NJ all of my life. Hope you feel better. Enjoy the day and weekend.


moogy on 04/30/2012:
I am anxious to get the results from your mom's tests. I hope you let us know as soon as you do. Glad you are still fitting into the same size clothes during this stressful time. I hope you are taking time for yourself to recharge yourself to care for those who need you:)


Umpqua on 05/09/2012:
Thank you Maria! I hope all is well with you and your Mom, please give us an update soon!


selina on 05/14/2012:
Hi Maria! Hope all is well with you and your family! Stay well!


hollybelle on 05/14/2012:
Hey, Maria - thought of you especially on Mother's Day - Miss you!



Maria7 - Monday Apr 23, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 148.0

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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nativeamericanwomanandcanoeanimgif.gif image by autumn1234567

Good morning, Friends. 

I've been off-track the past few days so I am back on track as of yesterday and rowing toward goal again.

 

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Hope you are doing well this morning.

 

Love, Maria

 

Progress as of today: 57 lbs lost so far, only 8 lbs to go!

V on 04/23/2012:
Good Morning Maria :) I hope you have a good day!


thenewMLE on 04/23/2012:
Good Morning Maria!! Your pictures are always so comforting. I hope you have a great day!


Umpqua on 04/23/2012:
Gorgeous picture Maria, take care!


liza36 on 04/23/2012:
Glad you're rowing in the rigth direction!


supercheese on 04/23/2012:
Havre a good day!!!


selina on 04/23/2012:
Beautiful photo, Maria! Keep rowing in the right direction, I'm with you!!


Em17 on 04/23/2012:
Have a great day!


moogy on 04/24/2012:
How I would love to sit in that picture and just breath! So serene, just the thing we need for stressful times:)



Maria7 - Wednesday Apr 18, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 148.0

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello to you...

It has been a mostly rainy day here in SC...We needed the rain and thank the Lord for it.

I sat with Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567 at the nursing home this afternoon, who was quite confused and also was upset with a caregiver as well for making her get up out of her bed yesterday and stay up for a while in her wheelchair.  Mom preferrs to LIVE in her bed and detests leaving her bed.  She has now lost her appetite and is not eating much at all.  She just simply seems to not be hungry.  She has lost a little weight, which she needed to do, but she is just not eating much.  I have seen her like this before and it was when she had a bone infection in her foot and her foot and part of her leg almost had to be amputated but thank the Lord, He healed her.  I really think that the specialist she is going to see next week will reveal that she has an infection that has been causing her pain. 

I am  still exhausted from going back and forth so much but I did stay home yesterday and rested although I felt very guilty for doing so.  I didn't want Mom to feel I'd abandoned her while she was in pain and yet at the same time I needed to rest as I wasn't feeling well at all yesterday. 

Weight was 148.0 this morning on scale. I did well with calories yesterday, about 1350, I think.

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Hubby and I went grocery shopping later this evening, something we rarely do together (usually I do it myself).  It was fun and I think we did real well together.  Thing is, when we got home and got the groceries put up, I figured out that we could have eaten out at restaurants for cheaper than we paid to buy the food to cook to make meals.  When I mentioned this to Hubby, he thoughtfully said that we might not feel like eating out every day (which we surely do not do as I  cook the majority of our meals) and he said it is good to have food at home we can eat anyway, which he is right.  Why is my mind always like a calculator?  I am so used to figuring which is the cheapest way to do things.   Speaking of cheap, I thoroughly enjoy wearing used clothing that I buy at yard sales, flea markets, and thrift stores and as for Hubby, he could care less about clothes as long as I don't buy something that is not his style for him to wear.  (I think tropical-looking shirts I've bought for him in the past are SO CUTE on him when he has tried them on at home but I learned long ago that he is so NOT going to wear them out anywhere!)

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flowersyellow.jpg image by autumn1234567

 

Anyway, hope you are having a wonderful day in the Lord. Every day with Jesus is a GOOD DAY!

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 57 lbs lost so far, only 8 lbs to go!

moogy on 04/18/2012:
I am glad that you had a lovely afternoon with your husband. Doing things together is always better than doing them alone. I am sitting listening to the music from school as I type, the children aren't back until next week, however the teachers are back. The music this year is cover versions of The Beatles 'Let It Be' for the end of lunchtime and 'All You Need Is Love' in the afternoon recess. It is lovely and I am a very blessed woman:)I hope that life becomes less stressful for you and if not that you have the wisdom and peace that will help you to manage whatever it throws at you:)


selina on 04/19/2012:
Sound like a great day with hubby at the super market - in my opinion, home cooked meals are always cheaper than eating out! At least, it is for me. Also, you know exactly what you put in it... I hope your mom feels better soon. Stay well!


Em17 on 04/19/2012:
Hope she feels better! Have a good day!


Umpqua on 04/19/2012:
I think with cooking at home versus eating out it's a matter of quality. Sure, some restaurant food may be cheaper, but what is the real cost? I always wonder how they are preparing the food and what type of ingredients they are using, and I can almost guarantee they're not using the same quality ingredients that I keep at home. Restaurants don't care about the health of their customers, they're out to make money, same as the food manufacturers. So even though the numbers may look better on paper, in the long run they're not! (my 2 cents, pun intended ;)


V on 04/19/2012:
Good Morning Maria <3 I am hoping that the doc can resolve your Mom's pain..You are always in my thoughts :)


liza36 on 04/19/2012:
I'm glad you got some well-needed rest. Don't feel guilty about it. You needed it.

I think home cooked meals are preferable, although I don't do much of that myself. Sometimes it seems not worth if for one person.


grannyannie on 04/19/2012:
Hope your mom begins to feel better and get her appetite back. Agree that it's better to cook your own meals as you 'know' what is in them and can control the fat, sugar, etc.


hollybelle on 04/21/2012:
I know what you mean about groceries vs eating out. I like the control I have at home and it's healthier. It's so hard to plan every meal, though. I often say if someone will just tell me WHAT to cook I will cook ANYTHING I don't have to decide upon! LOL! Hope your Mom's issues get figured out. Sorry she is having such a hard time. How old is your mom? Mine is only 77. She has lost a lot of weight since Dad passed in January. I'd say about 40 lbs. She really needed to. I notice she is moving SO much better! She wants to have cataract surgery soon and needs to lose weight and get her BP down so she will be approved to have the surgery. I hope she can because her quality of life will be even better if she can see well! I worry about her driving and stuff. I can't see making her quit driving just yet. I ride with her from time to time and she does OK and only goes during non-peak traffic hours to places she knows really well. God bless, Maria. Thinking of you! It's raining her today. All day - gentle soaking rain!



Maria7 - Tuesday Apr 17, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 148.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

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Hello to you...

Pretty, sunny day here, in the 80's F.

Been a while since I've been on here.  I've been daily going back and forth to Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567 at the nursing home, who has been in a lot of pain.  Finally they are sending her to a specialist (next week).  Don't know if it will help or not...but trusting in the Lord concerning it...you know...when you've done all you can, STAND. 

I am exhausted from going, going, going every day and seeing Mom suffering so much.  Today I am going to try to stay home and catch up on some rest.  Her birthday was yesterday and my Sister and I were both up there spending time with Mom.  She seemed to be feeling some better.

Weight is is up, 148.4 this morning on scale.  I've given in to some nite-time comfort-eating.

Flower gardens are doing pretty well, but I've almost stopped working in them other than giving them extra water as needed.  Just don't have the energy...so our yards look half-done.  Leaves need raking, bagging and taking off.

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Hubby is doing pretty well.  I am so thankful to the Lord for my wonderful Hubby.

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flowersyellow.jpg image by autumn1234567

 

Hope you are having a wonderful day in the Lord.  Every day with Jesus is a GOOD DAY!

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 56.6 lbs lost so far, only 8.4 lbs to go!

hollybelle on 04/17/2012:
Hey Maria! Good to see your post. Sorry your Mom has not been feeling well. It's so hard to take care of our older parents. My mom is doing OK, but she has her moddy moments. I wish I could do more for her, but she is #1 hard to please and #2 not sure what she really wants sometimes. This year will be a big adjustment for all of us since dad died. Mom is really doing very well considering what a big change it is for her. Doing yard work is a great workout - I'm sure your yard looksk better than 95% of the yards in your area even 1/2 done. Take care and God bless.


hollybelle on 04/17/2012:
Ohhhh, the bike ride/marathon - I am not sure I am going to do it because I haven't been riding/training as much as I wanted. But even if I don't ride that ride - I will break 30 miles this summer - I just know it. I am going to ride tonight - at least 12 miles. I won't have time for much more. Thanks for asking, though!


Em17 on 04/17/2012:
Hope your mom feels better soon! Have a great day!


V on 04/17/2012:
As always my thoughts and prayers go out for you and you Mom <3


Umpqua on 04/17/2012:
So sorry to hear about your Mom Maria. I am thinking of you and stay strong!


V on 04/17/2012:
I bake my fries and the potatoes are naturally sweet so no I don't add extra to them :)


thenewmle on 04/17/2012:
I will continue to pray for you and your Mom. I am sure your visits are a great source of comfort for her. The leaves and the yard will wait until you are ready. And I am sure like Holly says since you have such a knack for placement your yard is beautiful as is! Take care of yourself and hug Mom tight.


thinkpositive on 04/18/2012:
It was my mother's birthday on the 15th- 92! I hope the Dr.s find out what is causing your mothers pain.


selina on 04/18/2012:
It's good to know you are well Maria, although you are falling behind in your chores... your garden can wait, while your mom is priority. I hope the doctors can do something for her pain, poor thing. Stay well.


liza36 on 04/18/2012:
I hope your mom gets some relief soon and the doctor can figure out what is causing the pain. Hang in there!


moogy on 04/18/2012:
You do sound exhausted Maria:( I remember someone asking me 'Who takes care or the carer', if you don't look after yourself you will not have the energy to look after anyone else:) I hope that your mom gets the care she needs, it is so distressing to see those we love in pain:) You are often in my thoughts:)



Maria7 - Friday Apr 06, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 145.8

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Houseandcanoeoncreekinmtnsanimgif081010.gif image by autumn1234567 

 

Hello, Friends.  Today is the day we call Good Friday.  The day we remember that Jesus shed His Blood and gave His Life on the cross for you and for me so that through Him and only through Him, we may have forgiveness for all our sins (when we repent and ask His forgiveness and believe on Him) and eternal life.

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HubbyLargeManWaving.gif image by autumn1234567 worked today but has tomorrow and Sunday off work...yayyy!

Thank you for your prayers for MomIndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567 and others in our family, too.

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nativeamericanwomanandcanoeanimgif.gif image by autumn1234567 

I weighed 145.8 this morning.

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Hope you are having a good day.

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 59.2 lbs lost so far, only 5.8 lbs to go!

V on 04/07/2012:
Good Morning :)


hollybelle on 04/07/2012:
The bike ride is not until 4/21, BUT, now I'm not sure I can do it because of the weather here I haven't trained as much as I would like. I don't feel real confident. But there is still 2 weeks and our weather is supposed to be good so I'm not ruling it out yet.


grannyannie on 04/07/2012:
Well done on the scale going down. Have a happy easter, Maria!


selina on 04/07/2012:
Congrats on the lbs lost! Great to hear you are well!


V on 04/07/2012:
P.S. Keep up the wonderful job <3


thinkpositive on 04/08/2012:
Hope you had a nice Easter.


biscottibody59 on 04/09/2012:
You're doing well there:-) Hope you have a good week--take care!


moogy on 04/09/2012:
I am sure you enjoyed the weekend and glad to read that you a rowing and getting closer to the island:)



Maria7 - Thursday Apr 05, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 146.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Houseandcanoeoncreekinmtnsanimgif081010.gif image by autumn1234567 

 nativeamericanwomanandcanoeanimgif.gif image by autumn1234567

Hello, Friends. 

Island5.jpg image by autumn1234567

I'm still rowing to island 140...weighed 146.4 this morning.   

 

 

HubbyLargeManWaving.gif image by autumn1234567 is doing well...looks like he will have the weekend off and we are looking forward to that.

Please continue to pray for  MomIndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567 and also Sister,Sisterstandingtippinghatanimgif.gif image by autumn1234567too.

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Hope you are having a good day.

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 58.6 lbs lost so far, only 6.4 lbs to go!

V on 04/05/2012:
Well hello there Maria :) I hope you have a wonderful weekend with your family and yes your Mom is always in my prayers <3


moogy on 04/05/2012:
A couple of pounds down, that has to put a smile on your face Maria:) I hope you enjoy this special weekend Maria:)


Umpqua on 04/06/2012:
I hope you have a great weekend and Happy Easter!


biscottibody59 on 04/06/2012:
Happy Easter--enjoy your weekend! Here's to your mom and sister continuing to hang in there!


hollybelle on 04/06/2012:
Meant to ask as I was wondering about it the other day - how is your brother (that stayed with you for awhile) doing? Does he like his new city and job? Happy, Blessed Easter, Maria!



Maria7 - Sunday Apr 01, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 148.4

 

 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

 

 

This is the day that we Christians commemorate as the day that Jesus entered Jerusalem, knowing he would be giving His life and shedding His Blood on the cross for you and for me, to save us from our sins so that we who repent and believe on Him can have eternal life.  WHAT LOVE He has for us!  Blessed be His Name forever.

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HubbyLargeManWaving.gif image by autumn1234567 and I went to a wonderful Palm Sunday service this morning at a church we've been visiting lately. 

 Afterwards, we visited MomIndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567 who is in need of prayer and I thank you for your prayers for her.

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As for me, the scale weighed me at 148.4 this morning.  This afternoon, I had a good treadmill workout.

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Hope you are having a good day in the Lord.

Love, Maria

Progress as of today: 56.6 lbs lost so far, only 8.4 lbs to go!

hollybelle on 04/01/2012:
Pretty new graphics, Maria. Happy Easter week.


moogy on 04/01/2012:
So glad you enjoyed Palm Sunday Maria and you got in a good workout! Good for you:)


V on 04/01/2012:
All righty Maria getting in your treadmill workout!! Of course I will keep your Mom in my thoughts and prayers <3


Umpqua on 04/02/2012:
Great work on the treadmill Maria and I'll be thinking of your Mom. I hope you have a great week!


thenewMLE on 04/02/2012:
I'll keep Mom in my prayers. Have a reflective Holy Week.


thinkpositive on 04/05/2012:
I will keep your mother in my prayers.


WII on 04/05/2012:
Saying a prayer for your momma :)



Maria7 - Tuesday Mar 27, 2012
(Balance)
Weight: 148.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends...

 

 

I hope you are doing well... 

HubbyLargeManWaving.gif image by autumn1234567 is doing okay. 

 MomIndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567 is about the same.

As for me...I've been a little extra stressed here lately...Been eating a little more at nite, too, as usual when I am stressed like this and it is showing up on the scale, as I weighed 148.4 this morning.  One of my friends and I took a long country road ride to a town a good distance away today.  I'd planned on leaving the house for a few hours after I was getting very tearful over something someone I helped a lot recently said about me that I found out about and this was not hearsay...so I decided not to hang around the house rehearsing what they said over and over in my mind and crying over it...so my Friend and I rode a long ways to a town I may or may not have rode through before but not really visited the town itself.  It was about an hour or so drive...anyway, we had a good time...we ate out at a small but friendly buffet restaurant with really good food, although not a large buffet, then afterward, we went shopping at some nearby stores in that town.  I found a pretty black with rinestones-trim and big buckle western pocketbook that was 40% off that I hesitantly bought (like I really 'needed' it...)...that was a perfect match to a belt and pair of boots I wear as a set...now the set includes a pocketbook, too.  Will go good with my western jeanswear.  Of course, it is now too warm to wear all that with the very warm weather we've been having (80) but maybe a cool evening when Hubby and I go out to supper I can...  So...I came home after taking my Friend back to her home and after visiting Mama at her nursing home for a while...and there were 2 phone messages from that person mentioned earlier waiting for me to return their call and guess what???  I am SOOOO not doing that tonite!  Such friendly messages wanting me to call them (yes they are totally unaware that I know what they said about me since I went wayyyyyy out of my way to help them...)...and I am so not calling them back tonite!  I have NO DESIRE to call them tomorrow, either!  (And may not!)  Anyway...nothing like a good shopping (and eating out) therapy with a friend, huh????

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Hope you are having a good evening.

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 56.6 lbs lost so far, only 8.4 lbs to go!

moogy on 03/27/2012:
I can hear the saddness in the way you have done your entry today Maria. I think the same thing happened to your last year as well, if I am not mistaken. I think that sometimes people get jealous and can't resist turning on people. I hope that you have a lot of loving supportive friends that you can trust. It makes it easy to drop off the pretend ones:( I am glad that you had a friend to help you feel better for today and hope you find a way of disengaging yourself without causing you further pain. Love you Maria:)


grannyannie on 03/28/2012:
So sorry about your problem. Just remember that the only opinion of yourself that matters is your own! You hang in there, Maria! xx

RYC, haven't been to London yet, leaving tomorrow.


selina on 03/28/2012:
So beautiful, the photo! It's full of sunlight, it'd be perfect as a painting studio...

So sorry to hear about your problems with not so trustworthy friends. I'm glad you were able to get a little respite from it all by getting some time off and treating yourself well. When something like this happens to me, I always try to tell myself that what others think of me/talk about me is none of my business, as I can't control them. What I can control is staying away and avoiding this kind of people and situations in my life. I hope this helps.... Hugs to you Maria!


V on 03/28/2012:
Good Morning Maria :) I am sorry that you are having issues with your friends <3


Umpqua on 03/28/2012:
That picture is awesome, I want my office to look like that! I'm sorry to hear of your troubles, it really stinks when people let us down. I read something recently that really stuck with me, and it's that other people can't make you feel bad, only you can allow yourself to feel bad. We can't control what other people think or say about us, and it's too bad that you had to hear that news, but you can choose not to let it upset you. And I can understand your disappointment in this so-called friend, but you can choose not to let it bring you down. And the positive is that you got to spend a nice day out with your other friend! Take care <3


WII on 03/28/2012:
Hello! Just checking in! WII was here! :)


legcramps on 03/28/2012:
Grr! Some people are just not worth the trouble, Maria.


thenewMLE on 03/28/2012:
Love the photo!! So bright and comforting. I heard the same thing Umpqua did and it really made an impression on me. YOU know you helped out of the kindness of your heart and that mission was successful. Do not let the gossip or untruths of others taint your good heart and actions. But on the other hand, don't subject yourself to hurtful comments and treatment either. Move on and enjoy the company of real friends. Your pocketbook sounds lovely! Find a "cool" (as in temperature) restaurant for you and hubby so that you can try out your new ensemble! Hang in there girl!


biscottibody59 on 03/28/2012:
Hope you had a better day today--some people aren't worth the saline running through their bodies!


thinkpositive on 03/29/2012:
I love the picture of your room. Lovely. Sorry to hear that you've had to deal with hurtful people. I heard once that some people are poison & to just avoid them & move on. Not so easy but who needs negative people in our lives?



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