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Maria7 - Sunday Feb 05, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 147.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

 

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Hello everyone,

I've been under the weather lately and Hubby and Brother took me to the er Friday. So...I'm asking for prayer for me today... I am taking antibiotics and I was severely dehydrated, too, so they gave me iv fluid at the hospital.

Weight is the same as last time I keyed an entry (scale weighed me at 147.4 this morning).

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Brother Joncomputer.gif image by autumn1234567is still very excited about his new job... He will be leaving for the long trip there tomorrow.

 

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Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567seems okay currently.

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Hubby is doing good, too.

 

This is short and sweet...I'll try to key more when I am feeling better.

 

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Take care.

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Hubby and I visited Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567after we ate out at a buffet restaurant for lunch.  She was in distress and it took a long time to get someone to come see about her.  We didn't leave until someone did come, though.

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This is short and sweet...I'll try to key more when I am feeling better.

 

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Take care.

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 57.6 lbs lost so far, only 7.4 lbs to go!

moogy on 02/05/2012:
I am sorry to hear you have not been well. It sounds as if you haven't been looking after yourself. Not suprising as you are a carer of many and often that happens with people who look after others:( I hope that you feel well soon and that you get your strength back:)


grannyannie on 02/05/2012:
Oh,dear. I hope you get better soon!


selina on 02/05/2012:
Feel better soon, Maria. IV at hospital sounds serious! Take care of yourself!


Umpqua on 02/05/2012:
I'm thinking of you and hoping you feel better soon Maria. Please take care of yourself!!


V on 02/06/2012:
Take care of yourself Maria <3 Sending some prayers for you :)


biscottibody59 on 02/06/2012:
Hope things are better today!


WII on 02/06/2012:
Oh my goodness! Feel better soon!!!



Maria7 - Thursday Feb 02, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 147.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

 

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Hello everyone,

Thanks for taking the time to read this journal and for your comments.

Yes...weight is up a little (scale weighed me at 147.4 this morning) but I'm so-so okay with it at the moment.  I can still wear my size 8's comfy, so that is good.  BMI is 22.4.

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Brother Joncomputer.gif image by autumn1234567is very excited about his new job...  He is to be starting it next Wednesday.  He will be leaving here Monday and I will surely miss him.  We've gotten quite pleasantly used to him living with us.  He is a very sweet guy that thinks nothing of getting up each day and grabbing the vacumn cleaner and going to work vacumning or any other work that needs to be done.  He is a joy to talk to.  How I will surely miss him very much when he leaves next Monday to go up north to his new job.

 

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Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567got a new roommate at the nursing home.  I met her today and I believe she is a very sweet person.  I hope the two of them get along real well together. 

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 Hubby came home from work today and announced he may be off next Saturday (woo-hoo!  I feel a husband-kidnapping coming on!  We'll be 'gone with the wind' if he does!).

 

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Hope you are having a good day.

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 57.6 lbs lost so far, only 7.4 lbs to go!

V on 02/02/2012:
I hope your kidnapping take you to an exciting place ;) Have a good evening Maria :)


V on 02/02/2012:
I am sure it will still be a nice getaway, you deserve it :)


V on 02/02/2012:
I heard from her on Tuesday..I am pretty sure she is doing well..I usually hear from her daughter is she isn't.. I hope we hear from her soon :)


Umpqua on 02/03/2012:
Sounds good, I hope you have a nice weekend with your brother before he departs. And I hope you and your hubby can have a nice get-away next weekend!!


selina on 02/03/2012:
Enjoy the company of your brother while it lasts! Have a great weekend with your hubby!


grannyannie on 02/03/2012:
Have a good weekend with your brother and hubby!


hollybelle on 02/03/2012:
Yay for husband-napping! Have a great weekend!


moogy on 02/03/2012:
So happy to come back and hear that things are going well in your life:) A little husband kidnapping is never a bad thing, just be careful when you bundle him into the car!!LOL Have a lovely weekend:)


moogy on 02/03/2012:
So happy to come back and hear that things are going well in your life:) A little husband kidnapping is never a bad thing, just be careful when you bundle him into the car!!LOL Have a lovely weekend:)



Maria7 - Tuesday Jan 31, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 146.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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                                                 First, hello, dear Friends. 

Second...warning...this is another one of those 'crybaby' entries...emotional...who, me???

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Brother...

Brother Joncomputer.gif image by autumn1234567found a job...only about 800 miles or so away...he will be leaving early next week and I will again be ALONE during the daytime til Hubby comes home from work in the evenings...I think I have forgotten what that feels like...I will GREATLY miss my Brother...it had been many years since he and I had spent any time together with his living in another country and now he is going away again...I am blessed for the time we've had together..He got a position as a COUNSELOR...a rehabilitation counselor...wayyyyyy up north from here...PLEASE pray for him...I love my Brother (only one I have) very much.

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Mom...

 

Still visitng Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567just about every day at the nursing home...that is another story within itself that I will refrain from indulging in at this time...just please keep praying for her as well...

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Daughter...

 

 

Also, please remember Daughter in your prayers...  I don't see her often as she stays very busy.  I think back to when she was four or five years old and I think...who would have known then that they (your kids) grow up and move away and you don't see them much?????  How much more I would have CHERISHED our time together then if I had known then what I know now???  She is a sweet person and maybe I will see her soon...

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Hubby...

 

 

Last but not least is Hubby who is my encourager...  He always has uplifting things to say to help me when I need to hear them the most.  He's a patient man (mostly) and I am very blessed to have him for my Husband.

 

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Thank you for your comments. 

Especially I notice that even when I am not here, you are sweet and faithful to send a comment to me....thanks!

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 58.6 lbs lost so far, only 6.4 lbs to go!

grannyannie on 02/01/2012:
I understand well about not seeing grown kids often enough - siblings as well. Have a good day!


V on 02/01/2012:
Good Morning Maria :) I hope you have a good day!!


selina on 02/01/2012:
Hi Maria, Glad to hear you had a wonderful opportunity to spend some meaningful time with your brother and enjoyed it. Congrats to his finding a great new job! Have a great day!

Inky is doing great: she is a very independent cat and doesn't like hanging out around me so much, unlike Selina who is always following me around the house and being lovely. They have totally different personalities. Inky only comes to me when she is hungry, haha! I like her personally, too, but I prefer Selina...


selina on 02/01/2012:
Daughter is doing well, too. Thank you!


Umpqua on 02/01/2012:
That's great news on your brother's job. I hope he likes his new location! Take care and I hope you have a nice day!


mcwoo40 on 02/01/2012:
Have a good day Maria :-)


WII on 02/01/2012:
I'm so happy for your brother that he has a job, I know he's been looking for so long! Sorry that it also comes with distance. Don't forget to take care of yourself!


liza36 on 02/01/2012:
It's been so nice you've been able to spend so much time with your brother. I have 4 siblings, only one lives nearby, and I don't see his family as much as I'd like. Everyone is so busy. I hope your mother is well. Take care!


hollybelle on 02/01/2012:
Emotions showing through, Maria - I know just what you mean about daughter - mine is 20 and even though she still lives at home, and I am glad about that I know there will come a time we will see her less and less - it's happening now, even. Best wishes to brother in his new position. Hope mom is holding her own and you take care of Maria - first! Love to you and husband.


selina on 02/02/2012:
Hi Maria, I posted a photo of both selina and inky on my post. Cheers to you!


biscottibody59 on 02/02/2012:
Nice that you have such a good relationship with your brother. Have a good one!



Maria7 - Thursday Jan 26, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 146.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Good afternoon, Friends.

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Yes, it's me, still rowing along...but not getting any closer to the island of 140.0...oh well...

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Hubby LargeManWaving.gif image by autumn1234567is doing well.  He sends hello to you.  He told me he is hoping that it won't be long that he and I can take a day trip somewhere together...somewhere in another town that is not close by, that is...

 

Meanwhile, I continue to go back and forth to the nursing home, sitting with Mom...IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567... Talking to her caregivers as needed about her care and yesterday I was gone for hours to another town to fetch something Mom wanted that was not easy to find.  A tablet of paper made a certain way with no lines...finally found it at Barnes and Noble and got her 2 of them to last her for a while.  She has begun to write again and now her desire is returning to draw, something she used to love to do (and is excellent at) years ago.  She keeps telling me that she is very happy that she can walk again and that she sometimes walks to the little store up the road from the nursing home to get her a sandwich...I never challenge her concerning this...Maybe it is an out of body experience??? or a dream???...but seeing that she will tell me this, that she walked to the store (usually the nite before, she'll say) and she is just so happy to know she can walk again she will say.  She is doing some better healthwise, I think, although still not without problems or pain, and your prayers mean a lot....Thank you so much.

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BrotherJoncomputer.gif image by autumn1234567 may have found a job...it is a wait and see currently....may the Lord's will be done is what I pray for him, because the Lord's will is always for our best.

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Hope you are having a good day.

 

Love, Maria

 

Progress as of today: 58.6 lbs lost so far, only 6.4 lbs to go!

hollybelle on 01/26/2012:
Keep rowing Maria! Ahhhh, about your Mom's "day trips" to the "store" - that is really kind of sweet. She seems happy about it, at least and that is something! God bless her. Praying for God's will for your bro/job, too. Trust and obey!


Umpqua on 01/26/2012:
I'm glad your Mom is doing a bit better. And I hope you and hubby can get away for a trip soon!


grannyannie on 01/26/2012:
You'll row to the 140. Glad your mom is doing better.


moogy on 01/26/2012:
I am glad that your mother's 'day dreams' are of pleasant things. She must be feeling better if she would like to write or draw, that's lovely. I have my fingers crossed that your brother is successful in his job hunting. Have a wonderful day Maria:)


V on 01/26/2012:
Oh Maria that is good news that your Mom is in good spirits :) Have a lovely evening <3


thinkpositive on 01/27/2012:
I like the part about your mother taking little trips. And that she feels up to drawing, That's great. You are a good person, Maria.


selina on 01/27/2012:
Hi Maria, I never challenged my dad, either, when he told me all kinds of stories about what he had just done, like going to the farm and picking apples, grapes, etc. I thought he missed the farm, so I drove him for 1 hour to see the farm where he worked and lived for over 50 years. When we got there, he didn't recognize the place nor any of his employees who worked for him and still work there for decades. He liked the place, though, and wondered who was the lucky owner of the place... I never challenged him and just let him dream away. I think he was happier that way.

That would be so lovely, to see your mom drawing again!

Hoping that your brother gets the job! Stay well and keep rowing!


biscottibody59 on 01/29/2012:
Hope you're having a good weekend!


selina on 01/31/2012:
Hi Maria! Hope you are having a good week!



Maria7 - Friday Jan 20, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 146.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Good afternoon, Friends...

Been very busy concerning Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567lately...She has been in a lot of pain with different things going on with her health and the nursing home is SO SLOW to get the move on when she is suffering to get some serious help going for her instead of mild treatments (if any) for pain...  I have been going up there to the nursing home twice a day some days, sitting with her and also going back and forth to the head nurse and others in charge concerning her care (or lack of).  It is extremely stressful and that is putting it very sweetly...(as I key, I could CRY!)...  She had an orthopedist visit (first time with new doctor) out of town the other day that her primary medical doctor sent her to and I was there with her and the orthopedist doctor could not understand Mom's speech when Mom was talking to him and he asked right in front of her to me... "I can't understand a word she (Mom) is saying...Does she have DEMENTIA???"  UGH!  (Uh...yes...but that's beside the point...couldn't you have taken the time to read her history before you came into the room???")  I, who was sitting beside Mom (she was in her wheel chair), told him that I would be glad to answer any of her questions about her out in the hall.   Anyway, I interpreted for Mom.  He gave her a steroid injection into her shoulder for arthritis pain in it.  Also...her new roommate chose to move out of the room she and Mom shared at the nursing home...two dominant females...what else can I say???....

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Meanwhile, BrotherJoncomputer.gif image by autumn1234567 is still with us and has still been looking for a job.  He may have found one already...I just pray that whatever job he gets will be the one the Lord chooses for him to have.  Here at home, he helps me out with cleaning.  He LOVES to clean things...the more challenging, the better!  He keeps our oven clean and the glass stovetop...also he periodically does a BIG POLISH on the baby grand piano.  He does a good job cleaning, too and doesn't mind at all.

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As for weight I'm mostly just doing a sort of maintain right now and not in the frame of mind to do some WORK to get back to goalweight yet...

Hope all is well with you...sorry I have been late responding to your comments lately with being away a lot, spending time with Mom at the nursing home, but I'll  do better and if you comment to this entry, I WILL comment back to you...

 

Love, Maria

 

Progress as of today: 58.6 lbs lost so far, only 6.4 lbs to go!

supercheese on 01/20/2012:
Have a great weekend!!


Umpqua on 01/20/2012:
You have a real challenge with dealing with that nursing home. Take care Maria!


hollybelle on 01/20/2012:
Oh the healthcare system! He could have read the chart - yes! God bless you, sweetie!


V on 01/20/2012:
O am sorry that you have to deal with unprofessional people at the home..My thoughts and prayers go out to you and Mom <3


grannyannie on 01/21/2012:
Hope things improve at the nursing home. xx


WII on 01/21/2012:
I echo everyone else. It seems very few of us anymore, value our elderly and their contributions to our lives..and the fact that they are living, feeling and hurting people. God bless you and your mom. Kudos to brother for helping at home.


greengirl on 01/21/2012:
I am sorry that your poor mother is going through this. We had a similar situation with my poor mum when she was still alive and in a nursing home. I hope things get better for you soon.


biscottibody59 on 01/22/2012:
People are becoming registered nurses to cash in. All these hospitals, nursing homes, etc are now run like a business. They attract people of a like mind. People who get into nursing/medicine because they care are few and far between. There's no time for caring--it's built into the system now. I've talked to a few people who burned out on nursing after just a few years. It's absolutely shameful.

I remember and know how it used to be--you probably do too--and there's no going back. We have to deal with life as it is NOW.

I hope you'll continue to hold your ground--the vast majority of people don't have an advocate the way your mother does with you. I know it's hard and maybe depressing from time to time.

Just try to continue taking care of yourself and making good choices there!


moogy on 01/22/2012:
A brother who like to clean, and the oven no less, a welcome visitor at any home. I hope I have someone like you to care for me when I am in need like your mom. What a brilliant daughter you are, you stand up for her sweetheart:)


V on 01/22/2012:
I hope you had a wonderful weekend :)


selina on 01/23/2012:
Your mom is so fortunate to have you as her daughter! And what a house guest - cleaning my oven! Send him this way anytime!

Sorry to hear about your mom... I also have to get steroid injection in my shoulder - It hurts but it helps in the long run.... Stay well!


legcramps on 01/23/2012:
I know it's hard to remember or find time to do other things besides look after your mom (i've been travelling back and forth from my dad's). It's taken a lot out of my social life, but i've been more than willing to push it aside until my Dad is feeling better. Unfortunately, it's different for you. My parents don't depend on me for everyday necessities. My mom looks after Grandma a lot, and it was quite a learning curve for her in the beginning. She's learned that sometimes you just need to carve time out for you - no matter what's going on in their life. I hope you are able to do that soon, and can find some peace of mind. Have a good day today!


grumpy on 01/23/2012:
Maria, I'm so proud of you to keep your weight down all this time. And I am really hoping the situation with your mom gets better and she is not in pain! Hugs!


moogy on 01/23/2012:
Hi Maria, hope you are managing with all the things going on in your life:)


Umpqua on 01/23/2012:
I hope all is well Maria! Our cats are a little over a year old now and they're great (although still high energy and kitten-like :) The female, Zoe, is a mix of black and white with really neat markings, it looks like she has a black beauty mark on her white face. And the male, Quincy is a silver tiger stripe with green eyes. They are equally matched at running and play-fighting and keep each other endlessly entertained! And they sleep curled up together and clean each other. They weren't litter mates but we adopted them both at just a few months old so they're like siblings.


V on 01/23/2012:
Good Evening Maria <3


selina on 01/24/2012:
I agree Maria, it's a GUY thing. I also love quiet time... Have a good day!


biscottibody59 on 01/24/2012:
Have a good one--my brother cleaned my oven once. Don't think I could stand to live with him or he with me--you're a good sister!


thinkpositive on 01/25/2012:
It's hard to find someone in a nursing home that cares. Your mother is fortunate to have you advocate for her.


WII on 01/25/2012:
Thinking about you today!


moogy on 01/25/2012:
We are still having a cool Summer, going for mid seventies again. I can't believe it, and the advanced forcast is sticking with it, even for the first week of February (our hottest month!!). I am loving it!!


selina on 01/26/2012:
Have a great day, Maria! I hope your mom is feeling better today!



Maria7 - Friday Jan 13, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 146.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Good evening, Friends.

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It has been another beautiful, chilly (40's F) , sunny day here today.

Weight this morning was 146.4, so down a little more.

Visited Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567today at the nursing home...she appeared to be slightly better...(she's taking antibiotic shots each day now)  although still dealing with pain, she was smiling some but  angry with me...she said that after my talk with the superiors at the nursing home regarding her nurse giving her 5 pills to swallow at a time (and her choking on them the other day) that this morning her nurse (same one) came in and set about 20 small cups on the tray in front of her, each with one pill in it for her to swallow one at a time...and I think the nurse was not a happy camper...when I saw Mom's nurse before I left from visiting Mom and greeted the nurse, she barely spoke back to me and hurried away...oh well...small price for Mom's safety.

  I am home resting now...thank the Lord for Tylenol and electric blankets.

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Stay warm...

 

Love, Maria

 

Progress as of today: 58.6 lbs lost so far, only 6.4 lbs to go!

V on 01/13/2012:
Stay warm as well :)


moogy on 01/13/2012:
Well, if the nurse is not causing your mom discomfort a little snub only makes less of her not you:) I am glad that your mom is improving, she must be to be angry with you:) I hope you have a lovely weekend Maria:)


grannyannie on 01/14/2012:
Thanks for comment!

Some people should not be nurses! Glad it's all sorted out though and that she's feeling better.

Have a great weekend!


Umpqua on 01/14/2012:
You did the right thing with the nurse, too bad if her feathers got ruffled ;) Have a good one!


biscottibody59 on 01/15/2012:
I bet it's still nice to see your mom in good spirits despite the reason. Hope she's feeling better every day too!

Hang in there--hope you have a good week!


thinkpositive on 01/16/2012:
At least the nurse knows that you are there & she better pay attention. Take care.


WII on 01/18/2012:
I agree with grannyannie..some people shouldn't be nurses. I am glad your mom is getting better and that you were able to talk to them. Don't forget to take care of Maria! :)


hollybelle on 01/23/2012:
Thanks for your comment, Maria - I've been a poor example for so long - it's about time I did something about it. You'll get back in the swing soon. Try even a 10 minute walk around the house or nursing home or on your street, etc. if you can - it's not out usual workout, but I know it beats nothing!



Maria7 - Thursday Jan 12, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 146.8

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Good afternoon, Friends.

sunanimatedgif.gif image by autumn1234567

It is a beautiful, chilly (mid-50's F) , sunny day here today.

I was SO HUNGRY last nite and really wanted to give in and wanted to overeat but thankfully, I didn't.  Weight this morning was 146.8.

Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567has finally been diagnosed with a severe, painful infection at the nursing home again and will be taking antibiotic shots for seven days (again)....she has been in an awful lot of pain...please continue to pray for her healing and I thank you for your prayers. 

TMI below...warning...

Yesterday, I went to the nursing home 3 times.  I had to talk to those in charge concerning putting a half sheet over her regular sheet she laid on that hid bm that was on it, under the half sheet.  The head nurse and the social services director said it would be addressed...also Mom's nurse had given her '5' pills to swallow all at one time when I was there the other day (Saturday) and Mom got choked on them and when I said something to the nurse about it, she simply said it was "only five pills" that she gave Mom to swallow at one time and that Mom was used to it...NOT!!!  So I had a meeting with those in charge OVER that nurse about that as well.  My nerves are not at their best.  When I visit Mom, she is usually laying in bed, crying in pain.  Top it off, the head nurse called me after I'd gotten home from the nursing home one of the 3 times yesterday to inform me that an extremely important medicine Mom has to have (the generic doesn't work for her, she's tried it) is NOT covered by her insurance (which is medicare and medicaid) and asked me what do I want to do about it?  I said it WILL be paid for and MAKE SURE she gets it!  Can you believe it??? 

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 Anyway...I've stayed in so far today...it feels pretty chilly here and my nerves are NOT at their best.

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Stay warm...

 

Love you, Maria

 

Progress as of today: 58.2 lbs lost so far, only 6.8 lbs to go!

grannyannie on 01/12/2012:
Well done on resisting the urge to binge! Sorry your mom isn't doing well. Unfortunately we often have to fight to get the best care for our loved ones.


moogy on 01/12/2012:
I am so proud of you for sticking with the diet with all the concerns you have at the moment. I am glad that your mom has you in 'her corner' to get her what she needs. You do love your sweet potato Maria, and such a good way to put a stop to a sweet craving. I hope that today is a better one for you:)


V on 01/12/2012:
Stay warm as well Maria <3


thinkpositive on 01/12/2012:
Good for you to talk to the staff at the nursing home. I can't believe what they try to get away with! They know that you are involved & visit frequently. They should be able to keep her more comfortable. There is no reason for her to be in such pain.Can you consult with her Dr. about pain medication? I'm thinking about you.


Umpqua on 01/13/2012:
Good job not overeating despite everything going on. You are a great daughter for staying on top of the nursing staff there and being persistent, sounds like that's the only way to get them to make changes. I'm sure it's a very draining job for you, stay strong!


liza36 on 01/13/2012:
I'm sorry to hear your mom is in pain. You are a wonderful daughter to keep up with everything. You also did a good job at not overeating. Well done!


biscottibody59 on 01/13/2012:
I know what this is like--and you're doing all you can do! It's just unfortunate that as humans we can always figure out just what little effort we can PRETTY MUCH get away with and not be touched. (I include myself on that.) We don't expect that we will be so close to our parents' care at some point, but just know that I think you're doing as well as you can (and with grace and love). Just remember to leave a little for yourself every day!

Good for you on nixing the diet soda--all credit to you on that. Keep up the good work!



Maria7 - Tuesday Jan 10, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 146.6

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

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Hello, Friends.

Visited Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567again yesterday, took her a vase of pretty, fresh roses....

..She was happy over them although still in a lot of pain, which she has been very depressed about, understandably...She has been having more than one thing going on painwise with her.  I spent about 3 hours visiting her and doing things to try to cheer her up, including going to the store for one of her friends.  Thank you for your prayers for her.

 

Also, please remember Daughter in your prayers, who hasn't been feeling well, either. 

 

 

 

Brother Joncomputer.gif image by autumn1234567is still with us and still looking for a job.

 

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Scalewise, I'm just maintaining, which 'ain't bad'...

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Hubby and I visited a new church Sunday.  We had a really sweet service...a candlelight service.  We have left our church we were a part of for about 16 years.  I enjoyed being the church pianist there for many years until we recently left.  We are visiting other churches now.

 

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Hope you are having a good day.

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 58.4 lbs lost so far, only 6.6 lbs to go!

grannyannie on 01/10/2012:
Have a wonderful day. Hope your mom improves.


liza36 on 01/10/2012:
I'll keep your mom and daughter in my prayers.


Umpqua on 01/10/2012:
I love the flower arrangement. I hope your Mom and daughter will feel better soon, and great job maintaining through everything you have going on!


hollybelle on 01/10/2012:
Hope your mom feels better soon and I will say a special prayer for her caregiver (you). Hope you find a church you are comfortable with and can make new friends in. I visit many churches, myself - for some reason I have not wanted to only go to one. There is one that I go to most, though.


moogy on 01/10/2012:
You certainly have a lot to deal with at the moment Maria. I am so glad that you are looking after yourself. I hope you find a church that you feel at home in:)


biscottibody59 on 01/10/2012:
Are you also trying to find a church to keep up with your piano playing?

Wishing you all the luck in this--I know some of these churches have their own agendas these days (according to a neighbor who finally gave up trying to find one to fit).

Have a good evening!


V on 01/10/2012:
Beautiful Flowers!! :) Hope you have a wonderful evening Maria <3


WII on 01/12/2012:
Sending prayers up!



Maria7 - Thursday Jan 05, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 146.6

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

 

 

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Hello, Friends.

Visited Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567twice again today...she said she is depressed and she doesn't look too good.  She has been in a lot of pain.  Thank you for your prayers for her.

 

It was warm today (high 50's F for the high, I think) and sunny here in S.C.  This morning I wore a jacket and this afternoon it was not needed outside.  I finally got our outside Christmas decorations taken down this afternoon.

 

Brother Joncomputer.gif image by autumn1234567is still staying with us and looking for a job.

 

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Scale weighed me at 146.6 this morning.

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Hubby and I ate supper together at a restaurant this afternoon after he got off work.  We invited Brother to go with us but he wanted to stay home and eat supper here, so Hubby and I went by ourselves.

 

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Hope you are having a good evening.

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 58.4 lbs lost so far, only 6.6 lbs to go!

moogy on 01/05/2012:
I am sorry that your mother is not doing well. I pray that you will have the strengh and wisdom to cope with the whatever life hold in store for you. I also hope that you find the joy that awaits each of us if we look for it. I am sending you love and prayers.:)


hollybelle on 01/06/2012:
Having your brother with you may give you some support during this time with you Mom. Sorry she is not feeling much better by now. Prayer for her recovery taking place right now.


selina on 01/06/2012:
Hi Maria! Happy New year to you, too!

I hope your mom gets well soon, stay well!


V on 01/06/2012:
Good Morning Maria! As always, saying prayers for you Mom <3


grannyannie on 01/06/2012:
Sorry about your mom, Maria Hope she improves. Have a lovely day.


Umpqua on 01/06/2012:
I hope the doctors can alleviate your Mom's pain soon Maria. I hope you are taking good care of yourself too!


biscottibody59 on 01/06/2012:
Hope your day is going all right! And your mom is on the upswing!


thinkpositive on 01/07/2012:
I hope your mother is feeling better. it must be difficult for you.


moogy on 01/07/2012:
I am sure that you will be enjoying the 70 degree winter. Hope it holds for you for a little while longer:) Give you mom a hug from me and tell her that she is often on my mind:)


moogy on 01/07/2012:
Thank you Maria, your support is much appreciated:)


moogy on 01/08/2012:
Sounds like a wonderful church service Maria, so lovely when you feel the spirit touch your heart with like minded friends:)


selina on 01/10/2012:
Thank you, Maria! It's my left shoulder that is giving me trouble - luckily, I'm right-handed :) Warm hugs!



Maria7 - Wednesday Jan 04, 2012
(Moderation)
Weight: 146.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

 

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Hello, Friends. 

Exhaustion.  Been going back and forth to the nursing home twice a day and finally after going back and forth to her different nurses and finally the head nurse, the doctor prescribed antibiotics and Mom had a chest exray this morning...also blood work has finally been ordered as well.  I told the nurses yesterday that had Mom been home I would have LONG been taken her to the ER and the head nurse told me yesterday that if it was up to her she'd send Mom to the ER but she couldn't cause it was up to her doctor, whom she was having trouble reaching yesterday.  SO I am hoping Mom will be showing much improvement SOON.  Please pray for her healing.

 

It has been another chilly day today (40's F for the high, I think) but sunny here in S.C.

 

Brother Joncomputer.gif image by autumn1234567and I have been visiting our Mom IndianWomanOlder.gif image by autumn1234567together.

 

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I am still basically maintaining as far as the weight goes, which I'm ok with for now.

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Hubby is working in the COLD and the mornings have been very cold here today and yesterday but we thank the Lord for his job and for taking care of him, as well.

 

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Hope you are having a good day.

 

Love, Maria

 

 

Progress as of today: 58.6 lbs lost so far, only 6.4 lbs to go!

NewBeginning on 01/04/2012:
Well done for maintaining your weight! You are so so close to your goal :)


moogy on 01/04/2012:
Hello Maria, that you for your messages, I appreciate your concern and support. I am sorry to come back and find that your mom has been so sick. I am so pleased that she has you to push for proper care for her and also that your brother has gone visiting with you. I have missed you as well and hope that the coming year is a good one for you and all those that you love:)


hollybelle on 01/04/2012:
Sorry to hear mom is sick. Hopefully the antibiotics will help. I know docotrs are slow to prescribe antibiotics these days, but with the nursing home population, I would think they would be especially mindful of how quickly slight infections can take hold. Then again, I didn't go to medical school!


starfish on 01/04/2012:
You're mom is in my thoughts. Good job on maintaining.


V on 01/04/2012:
Hello Maria :) I am so happy that you have your brother there to lean on, I will keep sending out prayers for your Mom! Stay strong!


Umpqua on 01/05/2012:
I hope they get a handle on your Mom's situation soon, thinking of you!


liza36 on 01/05/2012:
Hope your mom improves. Keep us posted.


biscottibody59 on 01/05/2012:
Hope you have a good day--hang in there with it all!


~WI~ on 01/05/2012:
Prayers for your mom!



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