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Maria7 - Wednesday Dec 22, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 144.4

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends...

It is cloudy and chilly here this morning.  Hubby has gone to work.  He is slowly feeling better.  As for me, I'm not feeling too good at all.  Done took my meds, (antibiotic, probiotic, sinus symptoms reliever) maybe that will help.  After he left for work, I got on the sofa nearby the fireplace that had a fire going in it and fell back asleep for a little while. 

My weigh-in this morning shows I'm down a little...144.4 now.  I was SO HUNGRY last nite.  I almost gave in to a food binge.  I kept trying to get it off my mind.  I was wanting to get into some sweets my friend gave me for my Christmas present from her.  She gave me a lot of sweets for Christmas.  I already got into a small bar of fruitcake she gave me over the past few days, but counted it with my calories each day and did my best to 'ration' it.  I'm okay with 144.4 today.  My goal has been to stay under 147.0 during the holiday season.  Christmas is coming up very soon.  We always take our tree down early (usually Christmas nite).  I am to cook Christmas dinner Friday, Christmas Eve.  Daughter will probably come over Christmas Eve nite and open her gifts, as she and I always have (we don't wait til Christmas Day).  With Hubby and me being under the weather, I don't expect any company on Christmas Day as our friends know he's been very sick.  But, then again, he is getting better, so...perhaps...???  I feel so bad right now that I don't even care at all for company coming over.  When you're in pain, you don't feel up to entertaining.  I'll do good to get the cooking the meal done.  Also, I plan on visiting Mom on Christmas Day, Lord willing  and take her gift to her, if not before.  Hubby keeps telling me to wait til Christmas Day to give it to her.  If I do, I'll take her a plate of Christmas dinner, too.

Hope you're feeling well.

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Hope you're having a nice day!

Love, Maria

 

  

Progress as of today: 60.6 lbs lost so far, only 4.4 lbs to go!

tangalyn on 12/22/2010:
congrats on the loss, hope u have a great day


Umpqua on 12/22/2010:
Feel better Maria! I'm just trying to cut back on high-fat meats and dairy because of the saturated fat aspect. So far the family is going right along with it without any complaints - it's going much better than I anticipated!


biscottibody59 on 12/22/2010:
Congrats on your loss--good to have a little cushion this time of year!

Actually Esselstyn and McDougall don't allow any meat or dairy whatsoever, so the chicken would be out--period--so no chicken fat. Also no oils, even the highly touted/marketed "healthy fat" olive oil.

It's a pretty strict way of eating. No animal products at all. No avocados or nuts, though a small amt of nuts is okay if you have no known heart disease. I'll put up an explanation on "ModerationKills" that explains how one gets over the no fat thing. Mind you I'm not in the throes of this plan as yet, so I'm not speaking from personal experience--yet:-)

Have a good one!


V on 12/22/2010:
Maria I am happy to hear that you resisted the binge also keeping your goals not to go above 140...I too have a goal of not gaining more than 3 lbs..I have been doing great so far but there are so many nuts here in all shapes sizes,cans and jars :( I have been trying to keep it to a minimal but so far so good!


moogy on 12/22/2010:
I am so sorry that you are still feeling sick Maria, you still have a couple of days until Christmas. It sounds as if you will be better off with a small celebration than a bit one at the moment. I do hope that you get well enought to enjoy your family at this special time of year. I am sending get well vibrations your way:)


moogy on 12/22/2010:
My favourite holiday foods are fruit mince tarts with custard, chocolate mousse, Christmas ice cream (it is vanilla bean icecream with mini marshmallows, raspberries, grated chocolate and pecans), pork and prawn spring rolls (egg rolls), the traditional Christmas lunch, turkey, ham, roast pork, roast potatoes, vegetables etc. This year I am including a try of Sweetpeas ribs. Yum!!!!


V on 12/22/2010:
Well there is 6 of us who share the same parents :) 25-50 yrs old



Maria7 - Tuesday Dec 21, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 144.6

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends!

Hubby is slowly getting better.  So am I.  We're both still taking antibiotics. 

I've been having a mug of coffee   tonite. 

The Christmas shopping is done.  Gifts have been bagged/wrapped and some have been given.  I visited Mom this afternoon, who had been in bed all day, refusing to get up but she had just finished putting makeup on and looked really pretty.  I stayed with her a good long while.  She told me my Sister, her Hubby, Sister's Daughter (Mom's Granddaughter) and Sister's Granddaughter (Mom's only Great-Gran) visited her this morning and brought her Christmas gifts and Mom gave them theirs (that I'd shopped for and Mom and I had bagged the gifts together).  Mom appeared happy.  Said her Great Granddaughter was especially pleased with her gift (a musical, light-up butterfly that plays a song when the butterfly is pressed and plays 18 different tunes) and wouldn't let anyone hold it but herself, hehehe~!  I was happy about this cause I picked it out! 

On the dietfront, I'm having to be especially careful cause well-meaning friends are giving me SWEETS for Christmas gifts.  I keep reminding myself that it is NOT WORTH THE TASTE for a few minutes of enjoying those sweets to let go where I'm at sizewise, wearing size 8's, which I've done before in the past and fluffed back up....not again!  Moderation!

 

 

 

 

Hope you're having a blessed day!

Love, Maria

  

Progress as of today: 60.4 lbs lost so far, only 4.6 lbs to go!

moogy on 12/21/2010:
Yes, I would imagine that you are really questioning each treat and checking if the taste is worth the calories. I am so glad that your mom had a lovely morning and that she seems to be enjoying the Christmas spirit. That is wonderful. I am being sucked into the Christmas spirit whether I want to or not, everytime the angel comes upstairs she sits in front of the tree and commands me to sing. So we run through Away In A Manager a couple of times, she is getting quite good at it now!!!! The children are excited, so it's hard not to be excited because of them. I am so looking forward to Friday night when I will read stories and they open the presents under my little tree. I hope you are enjoying this wonderful time of the year and recover fully from your sickness.:)


Umpqua on 12/21/2010:
Good for you for resisting those sweets! Though well intentioned, they are full of butter, sugar and other addicting food temptations! I'm glad your sister's granddaughter enjoyed her gift, it sounds like a lovely gift. Have a great evening!


ModerationKills on 12/21/2010:
Good to hear you're getting better and hubby too! Sounds like you had a good day there! I'm holding at 154 for today's weigh-in--I can't complain:-)


V on 12/21/2010:
Maria I think you are gonna get through this holiday without damage :)



Maria7 - Sunday Dec 19, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 144.6

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends...

It is a beautiful, sunny Sunday here in S.C.

Just got back a little while ago from church and visiting Mom (who was doing well).  Took her bananas and sat with her a while in the dining room where she and her friends were having their lunch.

Christmas Cantata (a program of Bible scriptures and Christmas songs describing the Christmas story of Jesus' Birth) was this morning.  It was beautiful and I thank the Lord for helping us! 

Hubby, who is still sick, stayed home and rested.  I fixed him some chicken noodle soup after I came in.

Weighed this morning 144.6.  Getting back to the 144.0 I recently was at. 

Well, off to read some entries here before I have to get ready for tonite's evening church service in which the children will be having their Christmas program. 

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Hope you're having a blessed Sunday!

Love, Maria

 

  

Progress as of today: 60.4 lbs lost so far, only 4.6 lbs to go!

moogy on 12/19/2010:
I am sorry your husband is sick and that he missed out on the cantata, however I am so pleased that it all went off so well. That's great. I hope that the rest of your Sunday is lovely and that maybe your husband will feel well enought to hear the children singing. That would lift his spirits.:)


moogy on 12/19/2010:
The questions were on someones diary entry. The facebook girl's do this type of thing and one of them had put up the questions today. I just copied and pasted and deleted their answer's and put in mine. I was love to see your answers Maria.


just42day on 12/20/2010:
Hope your hubby feels better soon! I'm sure the soup was very tasty and comforting. Glad your holiday program went well! Yeah for your mother doing well also. I think of her often. Have a great day! :)



Maria7 - Saturday Dec 18, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 145.6

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends...

It is a chilly morning here in S.C...30's...and RAINING...which I love!  It gives me a good excuse to stay inside where it is warm and not feel like I absolutely 'HAVE' to run, run, run!  However...there are '2' things on the agenda for today...one is go back to a store I shopped at yesterday here in town and get some more earrings...I bought a pair yesterday but when I took them out of the pack last nite to try them on, I lost a piece to them and didn't find it, so I will be going mainly to get another pair to replace that particular piece.  (My ears have never been pierced, so they are not pierced earrings.)  Second thing is I think I'll surprise Mom and get her a little something to cheer her up since she was so disappointed I didn't surprise her yesterday with a little shopping gift when I went back to her room after doing her shopping for her.  (She didn't want a pantsuit that I offered to get for her and didn't seem to want anything before I left, so I didn't bring her back anything when I brought her Christmas list gifts to give her family and friends back to her later yesterday afternoon).  So, something to cheer Mom is definitely on the list for item number 2. 

Antibiotic is not agreeing with my stomach this morning...ugh...it'll get better....Christmas Cantata (the actual program, not practice) is tomorrow morning!    I believe it will be beautiful.  I am trusting the Lord about everything.  The whole program is to bring praise to Jesus!  It is the story of His Birth, beginning with the prophets foretelling the wonderful news and leading up to His Birth.  There are lots of Bible scriptures and Christmas carols in the Christmas Cantata. 

On the weightfront, I seem to have 'gained' according to this morning's weigh-in.    My goal during this Christmas season is to ENJOY the festivities which includes social food gatherings and try to not go over 146.anything (stay under 147.0).    I can allow this and still wear my 8's jeans comfortably (and they are NOT STRETCH).  Not going to be a Scrooge, which includes not to myself enjoying eating delicious treats at parties, either, hahaha!  Maybe next month I'll get back to the elusive 140.0 goalweight. 

Evening update:  Visited Mom this afternoon...she had just finished NOT EATING her lunch, except for the small desert and 1/2 carton of milk included in it.  When I questioned her about it, and asked if she was still trying to lose weight, she told me she is just trying to "maintain" her weight she is at now.  I laughed and confided and confessed to her that I, too, am doing the same thing!   She was in the dining room, sitting up in her wheelchair at her table with her friends, who were also in wheelchairs.  I gave her 2 pairs of earrings I bought for her, but she couldn't wear either pair cause her pierced ear holes have enlarged so very much.  Only loops stay in her ears now.  I also took her a baked sweet potato with a little sugar, cinnamon and margerine on it and a small bottle of caffeine-free diet pepsi.  I took fingernail polish with me and she happily let me paint her fingernails red in celebration of Christmas season.  She was relaxed and seemed content enough, with one of her 2 closest resident-friends sitting nearby her.  Her favorite cna was there today, too, whom Mom really loves a lot.  This cna told Mom in front of me that she's bought Mom a Christmas present she is going to bring to give to her.  (That is a very special cna, I tell ya!  )  Mom is usually happy when that cna (for later reference, 'L') is there taking care of her.  Don't let me get started on the big difference in cna's and other medical professionals who love their patients and find it a JOY to take care of them and others who simply and only are in the business for money reasons.  Anyway, when I finished painting Mom's nails, she was very happy with them.

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Hope you're having a nice day or evening.

Love, Maria

 

  

Progress as of today: 59.4 lbs lost so far, only 5.6 lbs to go!

V on 12/18/2010:
Awww Maria :( I hope they don't charge you to replace the piece...I like the fact that you are allowing yourself a little leeway as far as the food...Christmas dinner is the only splurge allowing a tbsp of all foods at moms :) I hope you have a wonderful day!!!Stay dry and i hope you will find mom a snazzy pantsuit!!!


V on 12/18/2010:
General Manager..lol I have a horrible habit of shortening words names and expect others to know what I am talking about! SOrry ;) Well mom makes a turkey, dressing, Spiral Honey Baked Ham( she doesn't eat beef or pork but still purchases for everyone else) Green Beans, homemade mac n cheese, homemade rolls, home made cranberry sauce,sauteed collards....Maybe a sweet potato pie but none of us are sweet eaters, so i suggested baking a few taters to get the taste with out all the extra fats and calories...My annual contribution is a veggie/cheese platter and salad....Now keep in mind my Nana also cooks her dinner too, she likes oysters in her stuffing and it is mmm mmm good!!! Would you and hubby like to come for dinner???


Umpqua on 12/18/2010:
This will be my first time trying my Mom's recipe with whole wheat flour. If it comes out well I will post it. I'm planning to do one plain cheese and the other with sliced tomatoes, green peppers and onion. I hope you have a wonderful concert tomorrow!


moogy on 12/18/2010:
Wearing your non stretchy jeans over the Christmas holidays will give you an idea of how you are going with the goodies Maria. Your Mom will love a suprise and maybe put her back in her good mood from last week. Shame about losing that peice of earing, what a nuisance. I am wishing you all the best for the Cantata, I am sure it will be wonderful and fill you will the spirit. Have a wonderful rest of the weekend.


moogy on 12/18/2010:
Sounds like you had a lovely visit with your mom. I am so glad she was feeling happier today. I take the easy route with the chocolate bark, I buy good quality dark and milk chocolate and melt it, then spread it on a tray and sprinkle the nuts and fruit over the top so that it stays visisable. So pretty for a gift.


V on 12/18/2010:
I know how mom loves to get her nails painted and getting dolled up so I am sure you left her in great spirits!!! :) Yes Maria i am getting pretty excited just as if it was Christmas Eve!!! Love ya!


just42day on 12/19/2010:
Glad you had a nice visit w/your mom. That's fabulous that she has such a caring cna. I know not all health professionals are the same so it is very special when a particularly caring one is in the mix. I'm sure it makes a huge difference to your mom! :)



Maria7 - Friday Dec 17, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 144.0

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends...

Hubby and I both went to the doctor yesterday, who put us both on antibiotics, Hubby for sinusitis and bronchitis, and me for sinusitis.

I have decided that the less I answer the phone, the happier I will be.  Do I look like I've got 'sucker' written all over me???  Apparently to most of the callers, I do!

I spent 2 days crying off and on from a family member calling and upsetting me by saying awful stuff to me, then the following day calling and saying they had taken a lot of medicine for pain the previous nite when they called me and had no memory of calling and talking to me.  (That's a way to be very cruel and then disown responsibility for their actions.) 

Another one calls after the usual long period of not hearing for them and wants me to do something for them, which I oblige, then pulls a double with needing a lot more for me to do for them.

My Hubby usually NEVER answers the phone (unless his work calls) and if ANYONE calls just to 'talk' to him (that is not work-related), unless it's me when I'm not home, you should see the FACE he makes as he painstakingly takes the phone I hand to him to talk to them!  He tells me repeatedly that "Maria, just because the phone rings doesn't mean you have to answer it!!!"  when he sees me agonizing over call after call.

So...am I done yet?  You might think?  Yep.  This is better than overeating, which I AM VERY TEMPTED TO DO!!!  But!  Guess what???  IT IS NOT FUN TO 'FLUFF UP'!  (from overeating).

Okay...some good news...I 'think' I'm done with shopping for Christmas.  Today I went to the nursing home and offered to take Mom Christmas shopping, thinking she'd be ecstatic!  Instead, she laid there in bed telling me how very tired she felt and that just the thought of getting out of bed to go shopping (even though I'd be wheeling her around in her wheelchair) made her feel even more tired.  So I volunteered to do her Christmas shopping for her which she was happy about.  I spent about 3 hours getting her list done.  Took the Christmas gifts back to her room and we bagged them together (easier than wrapping).  She was very happy over everything I got but what was so SAD was when she asked did I get her anything???  I had asked her if she'd like a pantsuit before I left and she'd said no.  She doesn't know she will be receiving a real 11-diamonds ring from Hubby and me but she knows she's getting something expensive and extra nice for Christmas, her only hints.  So, I reminded her and she smiled again.  She'd wanted some of the gifts for herself but resisted after oohing and ahhing over them.  I'm glad the shopping is done.  What a job!   

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Hope you're having a nice day or evening.

Love, Maria

 

  

Progress as of today: 61 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

V on 12/17/2010:
What a wonderful loving daughter,mom, friend you are :) I am sure mom will be extremely happy!!!! As or the rest it sure appears that your patience is being tested and maybe your hubby has the right idea about not answering the phone! The beauty of caller id is that you always knows who is on the line and it is up to you if you want to be bothered! Love you Maria!!


V on 12/17/2010:
:) counting down the hours!!!! Sunday Sunday Sunday!!! LOL

Sometime in the near future that guilt will dissapate!!! Don't ever let anyone dump their issues/anger in your lap, you are sure to feel the same way...Misery does love company sad but true


V on 12/17/2010:
1 week and a day :) not nearly enough time but I plan a surprise visit Mother's Day too :)


moogy on 12/17/2010:
Ah Maria, it is a shame we can't choose our family like we choose our friends isn't it. Maybe time to invest in an answering machine!! Your mom sounds as if she has lost her happy mood from last week. Well done with getting everything done though. You are a wonderful daughter. I am sure your mom will love her present. Have a good evening.:)


Umpqua on 12/18/2010:
I'm sorry you and hubby aren't feeling well, and that folks are taking advantage of you this holiday season. I was out and about shopping and running errands yesterday and so many people are grumpy and cranky and seem miserable. I hate that the holiday season brings this out, it should be a time of joy and celebration. On the flip side, in the LONG line at the post office everyone was nice and cheerful and I witnessed several acts of kindness. We need more of that! I hope today is a better day for you!


selina on 12/18/2010:
Maria, I totally agree with your hubby - one needs to be selective in allowing people into our lives. Offending you and forgetting about it - how rude is that? I hope you are both feeling better today, antibiotics normally make one feel wonderful so quickly!

Good job on getting all the presents for your mom - you are an amzing daughter!



Maria7 - Tuesday Dec 14, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 144.0

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends!

I'm sitting here by the fireside this morning, keying to you.  It is sunny but COLD outside (16F).

I want to say something this morning.  This is the time of year when tempers easily flare.  Don't get caught up in someone else's anger and don't become angry, yourself.  Don't let the devil steal your joy.  I am currently caught in between friends, trying to keep harmony and peace between them.  It was not my choice.  It's not like I stepped in intentionally to do this.  I got caught in the middle by someone being inconsiderate and determined to have things their way.  I didn't go through the proper channels as I should have when I tried to accomodate them.  My excuse (everyone's got one, right?) is that I have become so accustomed to being the one in charge of many situations (including my Mom and her care, though this has nothing to do with her whatsoever) that I didn't even think to consult others in charge before making a decision to accomodate the person who was being inconsiderate.  I didn't think of the possible effect on others in charge of a certain project.    They became very angry, to say the least and it is ALL MY FAULT.  I had to tell them that I didn't think to consult them before giving in to the person and letting them have their way. (The others in charge had put me in charge of the details of the project, though they are the ones over it.)   I told them I was sorry and asked their forgiveness.  Some of the work they had done had to be changed slightly to accomodate the person whom I gave in to having their way.  Top it off, after they talked with the person, whom I agreed to let have their way,the person did not even act thankful and wanted things EVEN MORE their way.  I ask for your prayers about this even though I can't put the details over the internet.  Suffice to say, the devil will do anything he can come up with to try to take our joy if we let him.  Also suffice to say that I've learned my lesson well about making sure I, myself, am considerate of others (especially those who are also in charge).

 ..Tonite will be the last Christmas Cantata practice after evening church service before this coming Sunday morning when we have the program.

Update:  In making today's entry, I lost yesterday's entry.  Please overlook that comments were made yesterday...they were to yesterday's entry. 

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Hope you're having a blessed day or evening!

Love, Maria

  

Progress as of today: 61 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

V on 12/14/2010:
Gotta love anything in red this time of year!!! For me I am sad to say I missed out on my red shiny toy :( Alas she will just have to settle for her leopard Liz Claiborne ;) LOL que sera!! I am already packed Maria....I am notorious for overpacking and since I have alot of winter clothes at mom's(planning to bring some back with me since it's been rather chilly here)So I don't want to go overboard, I even have a post it note ontop reminding me not to put ANYTHING else in there,LOL As I recall you are a bit of an overpacker as well right??? Well I hope your fingers are rested so you might play a little more musuc, I only wish I could hear it!!! Have a good night my friend :)


nita51 on 12/14/2010:
Hello :)


nita51 on 12/14/2010:
How's your mother doing?


nita51 on 12/14/2010:
Glad to hear that.:) Guess I'm going to try a little exercise now, and turn in early. Thanks for chattin with me. Have a good evening.


moogy on 12/14/2010:
I would prefer to be in your cosy home than my air conditioned one, it sounds lovely. Good shopping there Maria. Afternoon tea is a very English tradition dating back centuries, usually it does include tea and cake, fancy little traditional cakes. We don't drink tea or coffee and indeed wouldn't give it to the children if we did. I have a menu of hot weather and cold weather treats that I cook or prepare, including cakes like my buttermilk chocolate cake, spiders (ice cream and soda in a huge glass), jelly and ice cream, muffins, finger buns (iced sweet bread rolls which are buttered), homemade choc chip cookes or thumbprint cookies (the princess helps make these) I could go on, but I am sure you get the idea. Would you like to come??? LOL


moogy on 12/14/2010:
I would prefer to be in your cosy home than my air conditioned one, it sounds lovely. Good shopping there Maria. Afternoon tea is a very English tradition dating back centuries, usually it does include tea and cake, fancy little traditional cakes. We don't drink tea or coffee and indeed wouldn't give it to the children if we did. I have a menu of hot weather and cold weather treats that I cook or prepare, including cakes like my buttermilk chocolate cake, spiders (ice cream and soda in a huge glass), jelly and ice cream, muffins, finger buns (iced sweet bread rolls which are buttered), homemade choc chip cookes or thumbprint cookies (the princess helps make these) I could go on, but I am sure you get the idea. Would you like to come??? LOL


Umpqua on 12/15/2010:
I'm sorry to hear you are in a difficult situation. I hope it works itself out and people can find it in their hearts to be understanding and forgiving, particularly at this time of year. I hope you have a great day and stay warm!!


V on 12/15/2010:
:( I am sorry that you are going through this and you are so right about not getting caught up in someone else's anger, it is the Devil trying to work at you, I know you will not let him win! I hope your day gets better and yes I will pray for your situation


moogy on 12/15/2010:
Sometimes the peacemakers are the ones that take the flack. I am sorry that you got caught in the middle but I am so glad that you managed to stay gracious and calm. You have the right attitude, maybe you can step out now and let those in charge deal with the person being unreasonable. I hate being angry even if it is the appropriate feeling and tend to swollow it down ( something I learned to do in childhood) and then I swallow a lot of chocolate just to make sure it stays down!!!! Have a good evening Maria. I hope you are feeling calm and peaceful, you deserve it.:)


nita51 on 12/15/2010:
Don't let this situation damper your Christmas Spirits. Some people are joy stealer's. They will try to steal your joy, if you let them. Please move on, and chalk it up to the other person's selfishness and your kind nature. I am much like you, misunderstandings weigh heavily on my spirit. Keeping you in my prayers. Come on, GET HAPPY! Jesus has a big celebration coming soon, and we want to be in good spirits for the party. PS, Let nothing rain on your parade, I'm sure you meant well.


hopingforhealth on 12/15/2010:
Ugh. I'm so sorry to hear that. It is so hard to be caught between people...and it never ceases to amazing me the way adults can act like children. I hope that everyone understands that you were just doing the best you could to please everyone and that it gets better!


V on 12/15/2010:
Oh I am at the maintanence phase now...I am eating without weighing or measuring so I can allow my body to tell me where it is comfortable at...Not more than 140 if I can help it, It is not truly about the number but how my clothes fit on me now :)


V on 12/15/2010:
Oh I am 5'6ish


selina on 12/15/2010:
Enjoy the Cantata and have a joyful evening! Sorry to hear about your very difficult friends...


moogy on 12/16/2010:
Morning here in Sydney Maria. I hope that the cantata went well. I am looking forward to hearing about it. Thank you for your comments and prayer, I appreciate you very much.:)


moogy on 12/16/2010:
Hi Maria, How are you doing? Haven't seen a post in a couple of days. I am guessing you are on a little writing break. Yes, I did get a bit of a workout with the emergency arrangements yesterday. It was great fun. Hope you are well and happy.:)



Maria7 - Monday Dec 13, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 144.0

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends...

Hubby and I are watching tv...thought I'd say hello tonite...  I visited Mom at the nursing home today.  She seemed to be doing okay.  Then I went to the next larger town over and walked around in stores after navigating the heavy afternoon Christmas traffic...  Lots of things on sale.  Didn't buy anything.  It's very cold outside.  I wore hat and gloves, jacket and boots with warm clothes.  Looks like I'll have to shop for my Mom's Christmas gifts to others instead of taking her with me...she was wanting to go Christmas shopping, too, but I don't think it would be wise to get her out of the warm nursing home into the very cold air.  Last year, I took her Christmas shopping when the weather was milder and after I got her into a store, she got overheated and I had to get her back to the car, then go back in (leaving her alone in the car) to pay for the items she chose for gifts...this is not to mention lifting her and her wheelchair and her bathroom break...I know she wants to get out of the nursing home for a while but it's not worth it to risk her health.  So, I'll just do the best I can. 

The chocolate cake (turned out to be 13 layers) turned out real well and I gave away most of what wasn't eaten at the church Christmas party.  Tomorrow nite is Christmas Cantata practice at church. 

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Hope you're having a nice day or evening.

Love, Maria

 

  

Progress as of today: 61 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

moogy on 12/13/2010:
I wish we had a picture of that cake, it sounds fantastic. I agree with you, your mom is too frail to be out and about in the cold. I fantasize about Christmas shopping in the cold, taking my time, enjoying the decorations etc. It is a lot of planning and very quick in and out of the shops here, usually very early in the morning. Although, today is relatively a nice day, I have a cool breeze and an overcast sky, so yay!! I hope you have a lovely evening with your hubby, keeping warm and watching tele.:)


V on 12/13/2010:
I'm sorry that it wasn't warmer weather to take mom out for a bit! hopefully it will warm soon enough to at least enjoy the fresh air..You are such an awesome daughter :) I am glad that you so graciously offered that leftover temptation,oops cake to someone else ;) Love ya Maria!


chidogs on 12/13/2010:
Sorry you aren't able to take Mom out Christmas shopping. But when a mild day comes you can do something that takes less time and is less complicated. We would take my Mom to breakfast every Sunday. She loved the outing, so I know what you mean about needing to get her out. You will, when it will work best for you both. Take care, Maria.


selina on 12/14/2010:
It's so cold here, too, that I hate going outside! That cake you baked sounds wonderful! So glad your mom is doing well.... Stay well!

I ended up staying in and eating at home when husband came home. As I expected, he didn't want to eat out (he had to eat out 3 mels a day for a whole week while in Switzerland!) and I don't blame him for wanting to eat home cooked meals. Besides, it's easier on the diet front, this way...


V on 12/14/2010:
Heading out soon to start my day i just wanted to say Hello :)



Maria7 - Saturday Dec 11, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 144.0

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends...

It is raining here this morning and chilly but not as cold as it has been.  I plan, Lord willing, on baking a chocolate layered cake this morning to take to our annual church Christmas party this afternoon.    I was going to bake it last nite but got too sleepy sitting by the fire in the fireplace and went to bed instead.  Hubby got up this morning and said, "I see that you didn't bake the cake last nite, did you?"  (Some ingredients were still out on the kitchen counter waiting to be used in the cake baking.)  I don't know if he was thinking more about the cake or more about his little muffin-sized cake I usually bake for him when I bake cakes. 

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Update:  I finished baking, frosting, and decorating the 12-layer chocolate cake to take to the party in a few hours!  WHAT A JOB!!! 

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Hope you're having a nice day!

Love, Maria

 

  

Progress as of today: 61 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

selina on 12/11/2010:
Yumm! enjoy your party today, Maria! And thank you for the virtual b-dy present - lovely!


V on 12/11/2010:
Maria,I am hoping you only had a small cupcake??? LOL Love you!


V on 12/11/2010:
Well the suitcase at Marshall's has wheels and it is so shiny :) The other one I currently have is not :( LOL Great reason to buy??? LOL


moogy on 12/11/2010:
Thank you Maria, I had a wonderful morning at church singing carols with everyone. It felt really special. I hope you are enjoying your carol singing and the general spirit of the season. Have a good weekend.:)


hopingforhealth on 12/11/2010:
Oooh, personal sized cake? You are one fabulous wife. I hope you have fun at the party!


Umpqua on 12/11/2010:
12 layers? you go! I did a 4-layer cake once and that seemed like a ton of work. I'm sure you cake is fabulous! Hope you have an excellent time!!


nita51 on 12/12/2010:
Look at you!,,,You are doing a super job, of eating healthy. I admire your will power. I've never been much of a baker and I don't think I could ever do a 12 layer cake. What a sweetheart! his own little cake. Your husband should be so proud of you. You go lady! Love you



Maria7 - Friday Dec 10, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 144.0

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends!

I'm sitting here by the fireside, keying to you.  It is COLD outside and so WARM right here...I love it...looking at the fire in the fireplace.    That's the good news...

The not so good news (but still good) is I decided to give up the new 3g mobile internet.    I miss it already!  Turned out that, though it worked wonderfully and was just about as fast as the wifi here at home, the little limited 250 mb/month plan is not going to be a keeper...It sounds like a LOT...but it actually is very little.  Oh, it would work out if I didn't do anymore graphics on this entry (no pictures, animations, etc.) and only got online about an hour a day and never checked out youtube or any videos, etc. To upgrade to the unlimited 3g  mobile internet plan, the price would have been double the price for 3 months, then even more after that.  So, for now, the 3g mobile internet is...'gone with the wind'...  Oh, well, still have the wifi internet at home for now and am happy with it and thankful to the Lord for it. 

Today, I had lunch with a friend and she and I did a little Christmas shopping afterward.  Later tonite or sometime tomorrow, I plan, Lord willing, to bake a chocolate layered cake to take to our annual church Christmas party tomorrow afternoon.  (Although I'm really in the mood to bake Christmas cookies but I promised to bake a cake...which I'm actually much better at baking than cookies, hehehe!)  It will be at least 4 layers and maybe even more...maybe 8-10...???  It will be a yellow cake with chocolate frosting in between the layers and on top.  I may even sprinkle a few multi-colored Christmas sprinkles (tiny candy sprinkles) on top, since is IS Christmas, what do you think?

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Hope you're having a blessed day!

Love, Maria

  

Progress as of today: 61 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

V on 12/10/2010:
I am thinking go for the cake, 8 layers is a little ambitious for my blood but it appears that you can do it with ease!!! LOl ALso I think it is safer to bake the cake because you can't take it there with a slice misssing ;) Cookies on the other hand they would never know how many you actually baked!! LOl Have a wonderful evening Maria...It's pretty chilly here too 40 degrees


moogy on 12/10/2010:
That cake sounds exactly right for you and absolutely coloured sprinkles on top!! I think that personal computers are a little miracle in themselves, mind you I can't work out how the picture get on the screen of the television!!!! Another little miracle, someone did explain it to me once but it just didn't make sense to me. Sorry that you have had to go back to your old system, but it wouldn't be your page with out the graphics! Enjoy the party, I will be expecting a report tomorrow about how everyone raved about your cake. Love to you.


V on 12/10/2010:
LOL!!!!Oh so that's your secret!!! LOl Maria???? No cake size muffin for you! Maybe a cute little one :) Now I have yo lol, i gave Dan the other half of the burger and the other half of the collards ;) Yes I know...I ate the normal size dinner because I drank a cup of broth before eating...LOL on the celery yes that would be precise!!! You are too funny Maria ;)


V on 12/10/2010:
A wise decision!! Nite :)


nita51 on 12/10/2010:
Have a great weekend :)



Maria7 - Thursday Dec 09, 2010
(Small Changes Make Big Successes)
Weight: 144.0

For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16

 

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Hello, Friends...

Just got the 3g mobile internet service installed and am checking it out...so far, so good, here at the house.  I will be leaving to take care of some errands shortly and will be taking my laptop with me and checking it at various locations. 

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 Hubby and I are to get the Christmas tree decorated hopefully tonite.  The tree is up and looks pretty, though bare. 

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Update:  At a different location checking connectivity, etc.  Appears to be doing well with the 3g mobile internet. 

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Evening update:  3g mobile internet doing real well.  Checked it out at 3 different locations while out and about in my vehicle this afternoon and it did real well.  While out, I visited Mom a little while this afternoon.  She was doing pretty well.  However, her new roommate hasn't been well at all and the EMS came and got her while I was visiting Mom to take her to the hospital.  Please pray for her.  From what I'm told she is a good Christian woman who taught Sunday School in her church in her younger years.  She's been in a LOT of agony and Mom told me she spoke up for her to get some help and believes they listened to her why she was taken to the hospital.  After they left with her, Mom told me she's already lost 2 roommates who occupied her new roommate's bed and she hopes she doesn't lose her new roommate.

On a different note, Mom asked me today how much do I weigh?  To which I tried to dodge her question, as she is highly competitive, and has already put herself on a lose-weight diet by refusing her meals and making do with little snack s/w's.  When I wouldn't tell her, she asked again, "How much do you weigh?  140?"  (Close, hehe.)  I answered, "No, Mom, I weigh more than that."  (Though not much more, hehe.)  I am glad she is feeling well enough to be wanting to be a healthier weight.

Oh, lest I forget to tell you, the Christmas tree is not only up, it is now DECORATED!!! 

 

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Hope you're having a nice day!

Love, Maria

 

  

Progress as of today: 61 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

panda22 on 12/09/2010:
Enjoy decorating the tree, glad your new internet is working out good for you =) Have a great day!


moogy on 12/09/2010:
I hope that you are enjoying your day Maria. It is an unusually short entry for you, I am crossing my fingers that you are busy and not feeling down. I will be thinking of you:) Glad you enjoyed the Kookaburra's, I am lucky to have them living around me!


Umpqua on 12/09/2010:
Have a great evening, Maria!


V on 12/09/2010:
Love you Maria! I know the tree will look beautiful!!! ;)


hopingforhealth on 12/09/2010:
I'm glad the internet is working out. Have a great evening!


V on 12/09/2010:
How pretty!!!Your mom is one sharp cookie ;) So are you for dodging the question and telling the truth at the same time ;)


moogy on 12/09/2010:
I am glad to return and read about your day, your mom sounds as if she is being a little fiesty with you. That's wonderful. I am also glad that the tree is decorated. Yay!!


V on 12/09/2010:
Yes!!! :) My mom kept her internet service for when I go home for visits and she doesn't have a computer!!! LOl I don't think they pay much for it..Internet is part of her cable package so I am safe...If I stay at my bf's she has internet access as well :) I don't know what i would do without you wonderful girls here so full reports every day!!! :)


chidogs on 12/09/2010:
Love it that your Mom is very mentally active like that and in touch. Very good. Glad you got your tree done. We do ours this weekend. And it is great that your new computer 3g thingy is working out.


V on 12/09/2010:
Oh i leave in 1 week and 3 days, but who's counting??? ME LOL


selina on 12/10/2010:
so glad to hear about your mom! sounds like your tree is beautiful! Enjoy!


hopingforhealth on 12/10/2010:
I hope you are enjoying the tree!

I'm so sorry to hear about your mother's roommate. I'm sure it is hard on her to keep forming connections to these people and then losing then. I will keep them in my thoughts.



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