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Cybermom4 - Monday Apr 11, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 193.0

 A lawyer is walking along the beach and spots a glass bottle in the sand. When he opens it he discovers a genie inside.

Genie: Sir, I will grant you three wishes, but you must understand that whatever you wish for, every other lawyer in the world will get double.

Man: Hmmm. Ok. First I'd like $100 million.
G: No problem, but just understand that each lawyer got $200 million.

M: I understand. For my second wish, I'd like a new Porsche. In red, please.
G: Fine. It is in your garage. And just FYI, every lawyer in the world just got two of the same.
M: That's ok with me.
G: And for your third wish?
M: Well, I always did want to donate a kidney . . .



State Testing Starts today - so I will be out for the week - will return Friday.


Keep up the good work everyone. I plan on ordering Salads alll week!!

Progress as of today: 1.6 lbs lost so far, only 8 lbs to go!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 04/11/2016:
Yes, stay healthy Mom this week. Sometimes, when life is extra busy but def tolerable, i'm able to lose weight easier because life becomes too busy for terrible choices at home...I wish this for you....will read today's joke in a lil bit...thanks for posting them.

puddles on 04/11/2016:
Busy week. Take time to take care of yourself along the way and have a wonderful day.

hollybelle on 04/11/2016:
Have a good week - salad plan - good idea!

Donkey on 04/12/2016:
Great joke!!!

Cybermom4 - Saturday Apr 09, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 194.0


(WARNING: Do not attempt these at home. This is only to be used for joke purposes :-)

~ Jam miniature marshmallows up your nose and sneeze them out. See how many you can do at a time.
~ Use your MasterCard to pay your Visa, and vice-versa.
~ Pop some popcorn without putting the lid on.
~ When someone says, "Have a nice day," tell them you have other plans.
~ Make a list of things to do that you have already done.
~ Put your toddler's clothes on backwards and send him to preschool as if nothing is wrong.
~ Fill out your tax form using Roman numerals.
~ Tape pictures of your boss on watermelons and launch them from high places.
~ Tattoo "Out to Lunch" on your forehead.




HOP - Loving the kombucha - pricy but loving it

I scheduled a massage today - after my trip to Gettysburg and being on my feet in the cold - I need it - especially my calves they get soooo tight it is painful.

I found some CJ Banks on sale and ordered a few things - I know I should not have - but it was such a good sale and then I found a $20 off online coupon which they  accepted.  If you do any online shopping, it pays to search the web for discounts.


I have a challenging week next week - I am proctoring the state exam in an area near me.  The day will run from 7-5 and it is almost an hour away.  Long days ahead - prob just go stratigh to bed each night.


Actually this will be the perfect week to really control my eating.  I'll be so busy I won't have time to eat hahah - not that that is good.  

UGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGjust let the cat in and there is SNOW coming down and on the ground!!!  I'm glad I didn't plant my pansys yet!!  I want to get them planted before May!!


Oh well....................

Progress as of today: 0.6 lbs lost so far, only 9 lbs to go!

puddles on 04/09/2016:
I understand it is still very cold here again today but sunny -14C with windchill suppose to warm up to -1C wow.... lol Have a great day.

hollybelle on 04/09/2016:
Busy week ahead for me means I have to be careful to plan what I will eat or I will resort to unhealthy fast foods and stuff I really don't want to eat. That happened to me this week somewhat - it was good to recognize it! Hope it warms up soon. It's only going to be 45 degrees here today - but the sun is shining, at least. I remember the year husband I met it snowed 4 inches on 4/16! So anything is possible. It's snowed as late as the first Saturday in May (Derby Day FYI).

Horn_Of_Plenty on 04/10/2016:
Hi mommy!

Good idea for a massage if your body is hurting. I bought a foot massage special on Groupon. I'll be using it maybe today if they are open, otherwise sometime during the week. Same as you, my legs get very tight.

Glad you like the kombucha. There are ways to make it. Although I will not be doing that right now. The cheapest I find the bottles on sale around me is when there is a special, around $2.50 per bottle. Otherwise, they are at least $2.99 up to $4.

I love the kombucha bc it keeps me regular in mornings. Once in awhile I don't need it. And once in awhile I need more of it. Depends on many things. Many brands have some natural caffeine in them, take note.

That's a long day indeed for proctoring. Make sure to get some water in you when you can...and maybe bring some snacks so you are prepared a bit - maybe have dinner in mind and thought of so that when you get some you don't have to work more after that long day :)

take care :)

Horn_Of_Plenty on 04/10/2016:
oh, and I loved those jokes!

Cybermom4 - Thursday Apr 07, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 195.0

 Ohh my - what a week so far.  With normal work and extra work due to reportcards and a field trip to the Gettysburg Battlefield - this week has been a blurr.  Gettysburg was cool and windy but lots of fun.  Found some Christmas gifts at the gift store too. That being said..............

My eating has been awful all week.

I need to get back on track TODAY!!


Started the AM with Kombucha drink.

Planning on Ton's of water to cleanse.

OH and Just FYI - Groupon is holding a 2 day sale with 25% off your groupon with the code 25OFF in the promo.  Good for 3 purchases.

Getting back on track today and will get back to putting notes on the doors

Progress as of today: -0.4 lbs lost so far, only 10 lbs to go!

OhioRaven on 04/07/2016:
Looking Good, Mom. Gettysburg has lots of history. I liked it too.

cybermom4 on 04/09/2016:
It was a great trip. I especially enjoyed looking at all the old furniture and supplies they took on battle journey.

puddles on 04/07/2016:
Great picture always nice to put a face to a name. Enjoy your day.

cybermom4 on 04/09/2016:
Thanks puddles!! Have a good day too!!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 04/07/2016:
Thanks for the Groupon advice although I am saving my money for now...but keep us advised regarding groupon always please!!!!!!

next, you look fabulous in your photo - keep up the GREAT work!

and yes, be a stickler / tight-a$$, obsessive, whatever you gotta do, posting notes, etc., to keep yourself in charge and on track at home! I do the same! :)

cybermom4 on 04/09/2016:
Thanks Coach HOP - I wish I had you near by as my 'sponser' there are some moments when I just 'dive in and eat' and that is wrong!! I act possessed. I crave and I eat without even thinking. That is why I am hoping the notes will help. Oh and I am Loving the kombucha!! Great tip!

hollybelle on 04/07/2016:
Back on track for both of us! I am in - you too!!

cybermom4 on 04/09/2016:
Gooo Hollybelle!!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 04/08/2016:
So what do you think of the kombucha? lately, it's like it still helps me in the morning, but maybe I've built a tolerance? hmmm, I love this stuff. It elimates most of my bathroom issues at work completely since I can take care of that before work! lol

Cybermom4 - Wednesday Mar 30, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 193.4

 The nice thing about living in a small town is that when you don't know what you're doing, somebody else always does.


School trip today.  Probably eatingout - hoping to get a salad or a decent sandwich - no pizza please!!  (I usually LOVE pizza but today not interested)



Progress as of today: 1.2 lbs lost so far, only 8.4 lbs to go!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/30/2016:
Good for you - yeah - try to stay away from the pizza. What I do, when i'm out especially on like a trip or something - i'll sip on a no cal drink - diet coke or seltzer...you can eat something...and for he rest of the meal sip something to keep your mouth busy. that's what I do.

Cybermom4 - Tuesday Mar 29, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 193.4

Farmer Joe decided his injuries from the accident were serious enough to take the trucking company responsible for the accident to court. In court the trucking company's fancy lawyer was questioning farmer Joe.
"Didn't you say at the scene of the accident, 'I'm fine,"' asked the lawyer.
Farmer Joe responded, "Well, I'll tell you what happened. I had just loaded my favorite mule Bessie into the..."
"I didn't ask for any details," the lawyer interrupted, "just answer the question. Did you not say at the scene of the accident, 'I'm fine!'?"
Farmer Joe said, "Well, I had just got Bessie into the trailer and I was driving down the road..."
The lawyer interrupted again and said, "Judge, I am trying to establish the fact that, at the scene of the accident, this man told the highway patrolman on the scene that he was fine. Now several weeks after the accident he is trying to sue my client. I believe he is a fraud. Please tell him to simply answer the question."
By this time the judge was fairly interested in Farmer Joe's answer and said to the lawyer, "I'd like to hear what he has to say."
Joe thanked the judge and proceeded, "Well, as I was saying, I had just loaded Bessie into the trailer and was driving her down the highway when this huge semi-truck and trailer ran the stop sign and smacked my truck right in the side. I was thrown into one ditch and Bessie was thrown into the other. I was hurting real bad and didn't want to move. However, I could hear ol' Bessie moaning and groaning. I knew she was in terrible shape just by her groans. Shortly after the accident a highway patrolman came on the scene. He could hear Bessie moaning and groaning so he went over to her. After he looked at her, he took out his gun and shot her between the eyes. Then the Patrolman came across the road with his gun in his hand and looked at me." He said, "Your mule was in such bad shape I had to shoot her. How are you feeling?" 


Happy Tuesday!!


Well - I started the AM great but did not follow through at all!!  Ended up eating icecream, fritos, 1 carrot cake cupcake - I was a mess!!  Not sure if it was the nerves from all the stress of the weekend - although it was a good time - it was a busy weekend.

There - I confessed I'm a junk food junkie!!  The sugar high makes me feel good and I don't know how to break the habit.

I"m going to get back on calorie counting for sure!!  Weight is back up to 193  from 189- BOO!  I even changed it back on my DD info.  I'm going to be honest..

I really have no excuse.  I am  on my own this week.  Two kids are home but they have school, I have plenty of food for them to eat.  I should be on my own have self control.



B - glass applecider vinegar and lemon water, pineapple and watermelon

S. Protien bar

L - tuna and crackers

S. ?

D  leftover fish and rice

Progress as of today: 1.2 lbs lost so far, only 8.4 lbs to go!

thinkpositive on 03/29/2016:
Good joke- I laughed out loud! I guess I'm not the only one struggling to get back to a routine. Let's make it a good week!

grannyannie on 03/29/2016:
You can get back on track. Good luck!

hollybelle on 03/30/2016:
Sugar - ah the bane of my existence. I LOVE sweets - but if you stay off it for a few days the cravings do go away or at least abate. I find I have more energy, too. One day at a time - go for it!

Cybermom4 - Monday Mar 28, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 189.0

 Some years ago, there was a Mensa convention in San Francisco. Mensa, as you know, is a national organization for people who have an IQ of 140 or higher.
Several of the Mensa members went out for lunch at a local cafe. When they sat down, one of them discovered that their salt shaker contained pepper, and their pepper shaker was full of salt.
How could they swap the contents of the two bottles without spilling any, and using only the implements at hand?
Clearly, this was a job for Mensa minds.
The group debated the problem and presented ideas and finally, came up with a brilliant solution involving a napkin, a straw , and an empty saucer.
They called the waitress over, ready to dazzle her with their solution.
"Ma'am," they said, "we couldn't help but notice that the pepper shaker contains salt and the salt shaker."
But before they could finish the waitress interrupted, "Oh, sorry about that."
She leaned over the table, unscrewed the caps of both bottles and switched them.
There was dead silence at the Mensa table.


Lovely time at the funeral.  So many family and friends from far away.  Makes me so glad for sending the annual Christmas photo Card to each of them for I learned how much they love seeing the family each year.  (Which BTW my son and wife are expecting baby #2 end of July!!)    The gathering was also fun b/c my kids are all adults now and were mingling in with many older folks and had a great time!  

Food wise...............well - let's just say I'm starting today a fresh and a new!!!


This is going to be a cleanse week:  Not will power just determiniation.


Question for all of you  - how do you balance "love yourself just the way you are"  and "love yourself as you begin a healthy you"?  I find myself 'hating' my body one minute and wanting to be healthy  then when I find a new cute shirt and pant that make me feel good  - I say "I'm okay"  and I eat an italian sub!!  How do I change my thinking?




Starting the day with 


B - apple cider vinegar and lemon water;  Coffee, and lots of water


Ordered some kombucha tha HOP talks about.  It will be here Wed. Case of 12 bottles.  I'm eager to try.

Progress as of today: 5.6 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

OhioRaven on 03/28/2016:
Have a good day, Mom. I'm using your jokes . keep em' coming.

cybermom4 on 03/28/2016:
OR - that is great - share the fun!! Have a great day!!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/29/2016:
I need to come back later to read your entire entry....my head is swimming right now....too much on my mind LOL....

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/29/2016:
Oh, i'd like to know what kombucha you ordered bc I can share any advice / info / experience of mine about it. Chances are big that I've had whatever you ordered. Kombucha has turned into sorta a necessity for me in the morning. I doubt you will need more than 1 cup (although I usually drink at least 1 bottle).

Cybermom4 - Saturday Mar 26, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 189.0

 Just returned home from MIL fureral.  It was an Irish Wake - great time of celebration and joy for family and friends.  And guess what - I did not think once about my weight.  There were so many people there who werre with illnesses and hardships and I was strong and in my heels feeling blessed.  I hugged many and I know my MIL is in Heaven proud to see all her freinds and family gathered in her honor.

Funny - I'm not dismissing the great need for eating healthy and right, but I am now aware that life is short and spending so much time thinking about myself is silly.  People are gracious an people can be rude, but as long as I am being the best I can be that is all that matters.

Progress as of today: 5.6 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

hollybelle on 03/27/2016:
I'm glad to hear you didn't stress about people judging you. We do have to do our best and that may not mean striving to look like the model on the cover of Glamor or Cosmo - or what ever magazine, but if we gonna live life to the full while we are here we may as well be healthy as we can be. Not stressing over it - but as healthy as we can! Have a bless day!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/27/2016:
I loved reading this honest, truthful & emotional entry. I feel that on a good day for me, it's something I would want to write & share too. It's so nice to read this & even better to hear that you are alright, doing good despite the difficult time, and feeling confident in who you are. it's easy to sometimes feel better if we look around and see what's really around us - and how there's so much difficulty in this world, and when we see the things we are blessed with, sometimes it really helps :)

Cybermom4 - Thursday Mar 24, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 189.0

 Four men were fishing in a boat on the lake. The boat turned over and all four men sank to the bottom of the lake. And yet, not one single man got wet! How can this be?  (two possible answers)



Funeral for MIL is Friday and Sat; son sprained ankle; my gps died and had to buy new one right off shelf at Costco (I like to have a large screen from Amazon, but this one is fine) - girls are driving in from school.  Many of husband's family are driving or flying in.  It is sad that it takes a funeral to make travel plans but all in all it will be very nice to see everyone.  It has been over 10 years since I saw many of them - I'm sure I won't know whos who.  Husbands family is very very kind so I'm sure they won't hold it against me if I need their name again.  

I am sitting here wishing  - Oh I should have started my diet earlier - I'm going to meet all these people with my apple shape belly, Everyone is going to look so thin and good and I'm going to surprise them all with how big I am - I am wearing heels, black stockings, a cute skort and black top.  Hopefully draw the eye up from the belly.  ----Am I obsessing?  This is about my MIL not me!!  Just greet and love and learn how everyone is doing and pay respects to all in the family.  Support my children who lost their grandmother and relax!!


There ------I vented!!     Hope I don't sound too selfish - but this is the best place I know to express ....................




OK answer to riddle:  don't groan too much!!



Not a single man got wet -

A.  all were married or

B. not a single man -but All the men got wet




Progress as of today: 5.6 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

OhioRaven on 03/24/2016:
Groan !

innerpeace on 03/24/2016:
I bet all your visitors wish they were thinner too! Stay strong!

cybermom4 on 03/24/2016:
so true LOL

hollybelle on 03/24/2016:
I have some anxiety about meeting people I don't know - and also people who haven't seen me in awhile. Its kind of a waste of time, though. I am 62 years old and most people my age realize that if we are still here, able to get around and don't have any significant health problems - we are lucky whatever our size. The younger ones who may judge us - probably don't care - they are too worried about themselves. So really bottom line - just look your best and go honor your MIL and catch up with family you may not have seen in awhile. God bless.

cybermom4 on 03/24/2016:
Beautiful encouragement!!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/26/2016:
Were the men wearing Wet Suits!!? hahaha....?

I am sorry about your Mother in Law. I send my regards to you & your family at this difficult time.

I hope your son feels better soon. Make sure he does the right thing in terms of rest and phys. therapy as it heals so that it's not a life-long annoyance like my ankle is! I still am working (hard come May!) to make it stronger and ready for the NYPD! :)

Ummm, my GPS is old. How did yours die? I am nervous about that for mine. I may download a GPS app for my phone so I can use that if my GPS gives me anymore problems. I think I need to update my GPS' maps....it always reminds me, but I never do. Maybe i'll update it after the wedding & before I drive to Atlantic City, but, probably nOT! lol. Mine still works luckily. Works great. I have had it for...let me think about this....around 10 yrs or more.!!

Remember this one tip about social / family events: the most focus on you is put on you by you. What I mean is, everyone is concerned about how they look and nobody judges you harder than yourself. To make you feel better, when I was a bit heavier, I also struggled to go to a funeral once when I had very little clothes available in my closet to choose from (I remember it was for a guy my age at the time who committed suicide so sad), it was when I was 26 (now i'm 33), and I remember thinking about how I looked even as I was standing there at the actual funeral service at the cemetery. Sorry for the details if it as too much. I'm just trying to tell you - you may be focusing on how you feel so much also because it's easier than thinking about the funeral or the person who passed away. Don't worry. Everyone feels out of place at these things. Everyone. So don't worry Mom...go there, do your thing, and be the wonderful lady you are always. Because you are.

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/26/2016:
Also, I just looked at your progress, boy am I proud of you! Keep up the great work. Keep us motivated!

Cybermom4 - Wednesday Mar 23, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 189.0

One Easter Sunday morning as the pastor was preaching a children's sermon, he reached into his bag of props and pulled out an egg. He pointed at the egg and asked the children, "What's in here?"

"I know, I know!" a little boy exclaimed, "Pantyhose!" 


B - coffee and fresh fruit

S - ?

L - tuna sandwich

S - ?

D - salmon and broccoli



Progress as of today: 5.6 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

thinkpositive on 03/23/2016:
Sorry to read about your mother in law. Hospice is such a good program. They believe in keeping people comfortable.

cybermom4 on 03/24/2016:
Hospice is WONDERFUL!! I wish my father had hospice. The dr. he went to just kept treating him and he had COPD so bad he took his own life - terrible tragedy. If he could have died sleeping, that would have been so much better. If I had only known or knew what to ask for.

hollybelle on 03/23/2016:
Good joke! Hope your day was good. How is MIL doing? How is busband and you?

cybermom4 on 03/24/2016:
Thank you for asking. I like the jokes too.

OhioRaven on 03/24/2016:
Love your jokes. Don't stop or I won't be funny

cybermom4 on 03/24/2016:
LOL :)

OhioRaven on 03/24/2016:
At the HonkyTonks.

Cybermom4 - Friday Mar 18, 2016
(Healthy Eating)
Weight: 189.0



I haven't disappeared - just family emergency - hospice called for mother in law and lots going on.  She is still non responsive and shallow breating so her time is very near.  

She was a sweet woman - always laughing, loved a great bargain, and always cooking morning, noon and night.  She was known for always purchasing the newest weight loss gadget.  The latest we call the butter churner.  It has a base you stand on, a pole you hold on to and then you flip the switch and the pole vibrates massively and you hold on for dear life LOL.  She used it maybe once!!  Too funny.  Anyway they are out in the country so no internet.  

Probably won't be over eating there - but I make a vow - no sweets!!


Have a great day everyone and thanks for letting me share!

Progress as of today: 5.6 lbs lost so far, only 4 lbs to go!

Horn_Of_Plenty on 03/18/2016:
I am so sorry for your MIL. She sounds absolutely delightful & probably always full of energy & spark!

The "butter churner" reminds me of having to hold onto dear life when riding those "mechanical bulls" at fairs...I hope to try it the week after the wedding when I go to AC for a night! wahoo!

Anyways, take care & sending good wishes to your mother in law. :)

marshallsaya on 03/18/2016:
Sorry about your MIL, she sounds precious!

puddles on 03/18/2016:
Sorry about your MIL. At the same time I got a great laugh about the exercise machine. Take care

hollybelle on 03/19/2016:
So sorry about your MIL. Good memories to remember her by. Take care of you and your husband. I will pray for peace that passes out understanding for you all at this time. I am with you on no sweets today! Not gonna have any!!!

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